What kind of women is right for me?

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So, you are suggesting there are more ''available'' women who like to party than there are quiet girls ,I don't think that is true.I didn't say a shy,quiet girl was necessarily your type,it is the type I prefer.I think there is a girl out there who you could be compatible with.

What kind of environment is that whose are not popular and doesn't stand out? I have no idea what and where is that.



I'm not trying to label on someone. But the way you wear does correlates to the lifestyle and personality. This also attributes to the person's attitude. I see that ragged short jeans is a lifestyle of typical alcoholic and party animal personality. Superficial yes.



I thought of that before. I know who I am, so that should match someone who is a same as like like you just said. Its so hard to find someone around who is like that. I don't want to change myself to get easier way because that does sound pretty stupid. People has changed a lot, I have no idea why age around 21 is not calming down enough as used to be? 20-29 is usually age cohort of finding the match. In traditional world, it used to be easier. Now its harder because the blame on changing society to worse superficial ways. I am not happy about that, because it limits my chances to find the opportunity of love. True love is always happen. But that chance is slimmer.



Silver the Hedgehog is mascot. Its not my school. Its John Flynn's college mascot, who is just down the road. There are about 6 colleges on campus here at the uni. And it is only mascot we have. Other college, Uni hall, have their own wolf pack. Its real wolf pack like in movies and s**t. This college get so s**t like American Pie at times. I know about this place very well because I used to live there for past 2 years. Women there just so ugly alcoholic and superficial. Very extremely poor attitude as well.



I'm not sure what kind of advice is this? I'm not going to be dora the explorer to find love. I thought love comes to you?

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jXkDF5iAgv0[/youtube]

I try to apply this formula. The 7 factors of healthy relationship. This is what I wanted. That deaf lady does as well. Other deaf and hearing impaired people are a same as well. There is very lack of them in demographics of Australia in contrast to US which is biggest in the world.

Use CC so you can understand what her signing is about

Those characteristics that you listed are pretty general and can overlap. I really don't like generalizations when it comes to people. I think the more you socialize the more you can pinpoint certain personality characteristics in a very detailed way that fit best with yourself as a person.

Love isn't going to come to you if you don't actively try and pursue it.I think the trick is to recognize your limitations socially[if you have AS]and try to play to your strengths.For example,never in a million years could I go to a crowded bar and engage a woman in that type of setting,so I avoid them.I can be articulate and witty and in general a good conversationalist but for me the setting is vitally important,I need quieter one to one environments.

I agree, I don't think you can really generalize or put people in a specific label, however you might want to join a sports club or pursue someone that has a similar lifestyle and diet to yours.

Compatibility is the main key, if you follow a strict routine or diet and she doesn't, there are going to be problems in the long run when it comes to living together and maintaining the relationship.

http://www.fitness-singles.com/ There's a website here aimed at people into fitness and you might find what you are looking for.

I done enough of dating websites mate. I done Okcupid, fitness singles, plenty of fish, oasis and that. I been through all of them and they are ALL A SAME!! !! its so full of shallow and critical superficial women on there. I don't give a s**t about this, what is like more of a college culture. Drink and f**k your brain up.

You have no idea how difficult I try to put in. Why no women interest my YouTube video?

I've never found great success with online dating either.

But I think you need to remember that a person who drinks a little is not hurting anyone. Alcohol in moderation has health benefits.

Yea I like sensible drinkers, like two glasses of wine or whatever etc. Not party animal drinker like American Pie series.

Thought of Honolulu and Hawaii tonight, I looked up those pictures and those girls over there so beautiful!! ! Just incredibly beautiful. Not sure Hawaii would be a place to find true love?

How the hell is anyone supposed to know what you want? Only you can figure that out.

Its attitude dude. Recently I met lot of them who have poor attitude against me. It prove them wrong type. I never really got to know what type because I never met any one whose have good attitude.

If some woman has a poor attitude towards you and you were polite towards them then why give them a second thought.Move on to someone who will be receptive towards you.

I did that every each time! I always move on and try find new ones. But they are all doing this to me. One each after to another in repetitive form. I didn't make that repetitive.....so frustrated! It makes me feel so uncomfortable with the environment. Its like high school bullies that reminds me. None of women does ever understand me basically. I can't believe most of them do this to me. I wonder who told them to do this?

What kinds of women are you going after?How are you approaching them?

I go after who are into similar things and lifestyle as me. So here it is:
Understanding
Loves the environment and nature
Sports
Caring and honest
Want a family.

Also this video applies to what I want a healthy relationship, please use CC if you don't understand ASL:
[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jXkDF5iAgv0&feature=my_liked_videos&list=LLM-b6u31RLbfdgLvviz2uoQ[/youtube]

I don't approach them intentionally. It more of collision or accidental. More like talking to someone in class about similar topic, there is no purpose of direct approach. I always use positive attitude, conservative and assertive language and being kind. I never talk about personal things.

Come to think of it, a deaf woman would probably be quite a good match for you Aussie