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28 Jul 2012, 4:46 pm

ValaMephista wrote:
I just hope you don't think you're so undesirable that you have to resort to just grabbing some random girl off the Internet who's mainly just looking for a green card.


You make it sound so crass.



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28 Jul 2012, 6:30 pm

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Ha, I know in my case that I am, at least. I might go down the mail order route actually. Might work for me. At least for 10 seconds. :lol:

What if this mail order turned out to be attractive and somewhat blind?
Not trying to be awful but what if they judge you by what you do rather than by looks?


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28 Jul 2012, 6:36 pm

PastFixations wrote:
DialAForAwesome wrote:

Ha, I know in my case that I am, at least. I might go down the mail order route actually. Might work for me. At least for 10 seconds. :lol:

What if this mail order turned out to be attractive and somewhat blind?
Not trying to be awful but what if they judge you by what you do rather than by looks?


Standards of beauty vary from one country to another.



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29 Jul 2012, 2:21 am

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Plenty of women want to get married. It doesn't mean they want to marry you.[i]


Indeed) I can tell it like russian woman who wanna get married, but not yet)) Im good looking, smart, and bla bla bla, but also i wanna have a choice myself. Yes is hard bring fiance from russia, i dont belevie that in usa or in europe not enough women.


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29 Jul 2012, 2:44 am

ValaMephista wrote:
I just hope you don't think you're so undesirable that you have to resort to just grabbing some random girl off the Internet who's mainly just looking for a green card.


i dont think so, i know so. And there is a difference.

sadly id much rather be alone than be with someone whos around just long enough to get a green card



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29 Jul 2012, 4:32 am

MXH wrote:
ValaMephista wrote:
I just hope you don't think you're so undesirable that you have to resort to just grabbing some random girl off the Internet who's mainly just looking for a green card.


i dont think so, i know so. And there is a difference.

sadly id much rather be alone than be with someone whos around just long enough to get a green card


I'd see that as a sign of self-respect, not sad at all.


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29 Jul 2012, 6:56 am

Who_Am_I wrote:
MXH wrote:
ValaMephista wrote:
I just hope you don't think you're so undesirable that you have to resort to just grabbing some random girl off the Internet who's mainly just looking for a green card.


i dont think so, i know so. And there is a difference.

sadly id much rather be alone than be with someone whos around just long enough to get a green card


I'd see that as a sign of self-respect, not sad at all.


Well, at least you would have company for 2-3 years.



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29 Jul 2012, 11:18 am

Who_Am_I wrote:
MXH wrote:
ValaMephista wrote:
I just hope you don't think you're so undesirable that you have to resort to just grabbing some random girl off the Internet who's mainly just looking for a green card.


i dont think so, i know so. And there is a difference.

sadly id much rather be alone than be with someone whos around just long enough to get a green card


I'd see that as a sign of self-respect, not sad at all.


well, i consider it not a sign of self respect but as a way to not get used to something better just to return to the same thing later. And i do consider the idea of someone in that position rather sad



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29 Jul 2012, 12:38 pm

MXH wrote:
Who_Am_I wrote:
MXH wrote:
ValaMephista wrote:
I just hope you don't think you're so undesirable that you have to resort to just grabbing some random girl off the Internet who's mainly just looking for a green card.


i dont think so, i know so. And there is a difference.

sadly id much rather be alone than be with someone whos around just long enough to get a green card


I'd see that as a sign of self-respect, not sad at all.


well, i consider it not a sign of self respect but as a way to not get used to something better just to return to the same thing later. And i do consider the idea of someone in that position rather sad


It is better to have loved and lost, than never to have experienced coitus at all.



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29 Jul 2012, 1:28 pm

ArrantPariah wrote:
MXH wrote:
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MXH wrote:
ValaMephista wrote:
I just hope you don't think you're so undesirable that you have to resort to just grabbing some random girl off the Internet who's mainly just looking for a green card.


i dont think so, i know so. And there is a difference.

sadly id much rather be alone than be with someone whos around just long enough to get a green card


I'd see that as a sign of self-respect, not sad at all.


well, i consider it not a sign of self respect but as a way to not get used to something better just to return to the same thing later. And i do consider the idea of someone in that position rather sad


It is better to have loved and lost, than never to have experienced coitus at all.


thats only if you are able to fully move on.



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29 Jul 2012, 1:33 pm

MXH wrote:
ArrantPariah wrote:
MXH wrote:
Who_Am_I wrote:
MXH wrote:
ValaMephista wrote:
I just hope you don't think you're so undesirable that you have to resort to just grabbing some random girl off the Internet who's mainly just looking for a green card.


i dont think so, i know so. And there is a difference.

sadly id much rather be alone than be with someone whos around just long enough to get a green card


I'd see that as a sign of self-respect, not sad at all.


well, i consider it not a sign of self respect but as a way to not get used to something better just to return to the same thing later. And i do consider the idea of someone in that position rather sad


It is better to have loved and lost, than never to have experienced coitus at all.


thats only if you are able to fully move on.


Pick out someone new from the catalogue?



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29 Jul 2012, 2:15 pm

PastFixations wrote:
DialAForAwesome wrote:

Ha, I know in my case that I am, at least. I might go down the mail order route actually. Might work for me. At least for 10 seconds. :lol:

What if this mail order turned out to be attractive and somewhat blind?
Not trying to be awful but what if they judge you by what you do rather than by looks?


From my experience, that would NEVER happen in a million years lol. Pretty much everyone is worried about looks these days.

Let me also add that I am a pretty good person, despite how I come off on here. So yeah, that comment is a tiny bit awful. But it's all good.


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29 Jul 2012, 2:19 pm

There's a place on most dating sites to mark what you're looking for, I thought?
On OKC, I know it's "long-term relationship" or something like that (I looked), but still-
it's pretty standard.

Statistically, don't MOST women look for a man to marry?
If not now, then at some point in the future?


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29 Jul 2012, 2:30 pm

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Statistically, don't MOST women look for a man to marry?
If not now, then at some point in the future?

"I'm just looking to have some fun" seems to be far more common these days... :(



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29 Jul 2012, 2:34 pm

BlueMax wrote:
ValentineWiggin wrote:
Statistically, don't MOST women look for a man to marry?
If not now, then at some point in the future?

"I'm just looking to have some fun" seems to be far more common these days... :(


For all age groups, though?


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29 Jul 2012, 2:37 pm

ValentineWiggin wrote:
BlueMax wrote:
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Statistically, don't MOST women look for a man to marry?
If not now, then at some point in the future?

"I'm just looking to have some fun" seems to be far more common these days... :(


For all age groups, though?


Yeah. From my experience anyway.

There's something else I wanted to mention, but I don't wanna open that can of worms again.


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