What if I never get to even get into bed with a man?

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don't you know, everything is always harder for the poor menz always, and women have no problems with dating/hook-ups
and it's so unfair and wahwah no women reward my niceness with vagina

I know I shouldn't worry about this, but i keep imagining me being, like, 80 and still a virgin. When you've lived a whole life without even getting into bed with a man, it makes you think that something must be wrong, especially if you are reasonably attractive, have socially improved, and can generally relate to other people and not that bad at making friends (I only have a mild case of AS). I always worry about my friends (the ones that are my age) and my cousins will all be having sex and dating before me. One of my friends has Asperger's and she hasn't had a boyfriend before but what if she suddenly announces she's seeing someone and ends up in his bed and fallen in love? What if my other friend, who is more Autistic than me, happens to meet someone before me? My friend who has Fragile-X Syndrome has had sex before and she's 3 years younger than me (her condition makes her socially awkward).

Sex is part of nature, in any living thing, and I feel really strange if I have never had it by the time I'm an old lady. It's like a bee what has never made honey before, or a spider that has never built a cobweb, or a catepillar that has never turned into a butterfly when it should have done and is still a catepillar when all of it's friends have turned into butterflies days ago, or a bird that has never flown before but has wings. It just feels so odd. I guess I can't complain because I have had men fancying me but one is already married and so we both know we can't date, one is single but is years older than me and seems reluctant to date me, and one is more younger but is nowhere near my type at all and even just the thought of getting into bed with him makes me want to be sick. I dated a boy before who I didn't fancy, and I ended up feeling so depressed and also rather trapped because he kept on texting me all these sweet messages and I didn't know what do put back because I really didn't fancy him, and then when I finished with him I felt much relieved after that and felt free again, even though I didn't even live with him or anything.

What to do?

(creepy, fat, unshaven guy with tattoos, hallitosis and body odour and greasy hair sidles up to OP)

Oi'll come dahn and bang ya, hur hur hur!

What, you don't appreciate that? Must be some sort of lesbian!

(Just kidding, by the way. You seem an attractive and expressive person in what you write, so I really shouldn't worry too much. I'm 24 and still have my V-plates on.)

You're both in UK.... so go for it! ;p

Send her your pics.

don't you know, everything is always harder for the poor menz always, and women have no problems with dating/hook-ups
and it's so unfair and wahwah no women reward my niceness with vagina

Your bitterness is clouding your vision and you reading too much into it. There is no dearth of horny guys that will screw anything that walks including the OP. If she dies a virgin it's because she didn't look. That said, it doesn't matter to me if she dies a virgin.

I guess there's no horny guys that literally will screw everything around these parts.

Have you tried plenty of fish? I have heard there is a hole patrol that is on the lookout for new female members.

if hole patrol isn't a typo for "whole patrol" ...that's disgusting
I think it's a typo but the internet surprised me with awfulness all the time.

I have a proposal, if we're both still virgins when you turn 79 I would be interested in getting it over with, if your keen that is. Sounds like a plan?

Someone sounds depressed.

Really that obvious?