28 Jun 2012, 9:13 am
28 Jun 2012, 9:20 am
28 Jun 2012, 1:46 pm
Nikorvus wrote:
Then, sad to say, call it a day. It's over.
Take the lessons learned and walk away. One lesson to be learned: Communicate your issue. In your first post you were what NTs would consider cruel. Ignoring someone you care about when they do the slightest thing to annoy you is not good.
Take the lessons learned and walk away. One lesson to be learned: Communicate your issue. In your first post you were what NTs would consider cruel. Ignoring someone you care about when they do the slightest thing to annoy you is not good.
That is true, though at times these small things (as stated in about the 3rd or 4th post; forgot to edit original) are at times as much as her talking quite sexual with other guys and gaining 'pleasure' out of it.
As this is my first 'serious' relationship, I was not even sure at first if this was something that happen during normal relationships; I wasn't at all sure what to do.
28 Jun 2012, 2:34 pm
_DyL_ wrote:
Nikorvus wrote:
Then, sad to say, call it a day. It's over.
Take the lessons learned and walk away. One lesson to be learned: Communicate your issue. In your first post you were what NTs would consider cruel. Ignoring someone you care about when they do the slightest thing to annoy you is not good.
Take the lessons learned and walk away. One lesson to be learned: Communicate your issue. In your first post you were what NTs would consider cruel. Ignoring someone you care about when they do the slightest thing to annoy you is not good.
That is true, though at times these small things (as stated in about the 3rd or 4th post; forgot to edit original) are at times as much as her talking quite sexual with other guys and gaining 'pleasure' out of it.
As this is my first 'serious' relationship, I was not even sure at first if this was something that happen during normal relationships; I wasn't at all sure what to do.
It happens in normal relationships, but it's not to be accepted or tolerated.
28 Jun 2012, 4:33 pm
Nikorvus wrote:
_DyL_ wrote:
Nikorvus wrote:
Then, sad to say, call it a day. It's over.
Take the lessons learned and walk away. One lesson to be learned: Communicate your issue. In your first post you were what NTs would consider cruel. Ignoring someone you care about when they do the slightest thing to annoy you is not good.
Take the lessons learned and walk away. One lesson to be learned: Communicate your issue. In your first post you were what NTs would consider cruel. Ignoring someone you care about when they do the slightest thing to annoy you is not good.
That is true, though at times these small things (as stated in about the 3rd or 4th post; forgot to edit original) are at times as much as her talking quite sexual with other guys and gaining 'pleasure' out of it.
As this is my first 'serious' relationship, I was not even sure at first if this was something that happen during normal relationships; I wasn't at all sure what to do.
It happens in normal relationships, but it's not to be accepted or tolerated.
That's good to know then I guess, that I did have the right to react.
I do however understand how I reacted was in no way the right way to sort it out.
28 Jun 2012, 4:46 pm
_DyL_ wrote:
Nikorvus wrote:
_DyL_ wrote:
Nikorvus wrote:
Then, sad to say, call it a day. It's over.
Take the lessons learned and walk away. One lesson to be learned: Communicate your issue. In your first post you were what NTs would consider cruel. Ignoring someone you care about when they do the slightest thing to annoy you is not good.
Take the lessons learned and walk away. One lesson to be learned: Communicate your issue. In your first post you were what NTs would consider cruel. Ignoring someone you care about when they do the slightest thing to annoy you is not good.
That is true, though at times these small things (as stated in about the 3rd or 4th post; forgot to edit original) are at times as much as her talking quite sexual with other guys and gaining 'pleasure' out of it.
As this is my first 'serious' relationship, I was not even sure at first if this was something that happen during normal relationships; I wasn't at all sure what to do.
It happens in normal relationships, but it's not to be accepted or tolerated.
That's good to know then I guess, that I did have the right to react.
I do however understand how I reacted was in no way the right way to sort it out.
Two lessons learned today. You're ahead for tomorrow.
29 Jun 2012, 4:16 am
Nikorvus wrote:
_DyL_ wrote:
Nikorvus wrote:
_DyL_ wrote:
Nikorvus wrote:
Then, sad to say, call it a day. It's over.
Take the lessons learned and walk away. One lesson to be learned: Communicate your issue. In your first post you were what NTs would consider cruel. Ignoring someone you care about when they do the slightest thing to annoy you is not good.
Take the lessons learned and walk away. One lesson to be learned: Communicate your issue. In your first post you were what NTs would consider cruel. Ignoring someone you care about when they do the slightest thing to annoy you is not good.
That is true, though at times these small things (as stated in about the 3rd or 4th post; forgot to edit original) are at times as much as her talking quite sexual with other guys and gaining 'pleasure' out of it.
As this is my first 'serious' relationship, I was not even sure at first if this was something that happen during normal relationships; I wasn't at all sure what to do.
It happens in normal relationships, but it's not to be accepted or tolerated.
That's good to know then I guess, that I did have the right to react.
I do however understand how I reacted was in no way the right way to sort it out.
Two lessons learned today. You're ahead for tomorrow.
Woohoo!
No more learning for today
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29 Jun 2012, 8:33 am
No offence, but aren't you a little young to be talking provokatively/intimately? 
When I was 15, I only just found out what pleasuring yourself meant, literally.
29 Jun 2012, 10:05 am
CrazyStarlightRedux wrote:
No offence, but aren't you a little young to be talking provokatively/intimately?
When I was 15, I only just found out what pleasuring yourself meant, literally.
When I was 15, I only just found out what pleasuring yourself meant, literally.
Evidentally not.
We used to quite often (not as much anymore) and both really knew what we were talking about..
I guess this generation is just starting earlier then the last..
29 Jun 2012, 5:59 pm
