How to build a relationship with someone who have Asperger's

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Yes I have, so can we drop it please?

I agree, AussieMatty, if you're negative it can drag others around you down. As a naturally depressive person I fight pretty hard to keep upbeat about stuff, but if I make other people depressive also then i feel terrible so I have to try to see the positive side of things. It's very draining to be around constantly negative people.

Indeed. I know I sound sometimes like I'm negative but to be fair I'm actually quite an upbeat person. However, misery loves company, and when I have to put up with negativity around me, my level of optimism begins to drop. Thankfully most of my friends are the positive, optimistic type, and Kyuuchan very much so. As long as I'm with them things get better. For now, though, I'm trying to practice a facade of apathy to deal with negative people. To quote Kyuuchan "I'm training myself to voluntary shut down my give-a-damn process."

Ah the apathy facade. Works well for a number of processes. Would work better for if I wasn't such an emotional sponge but there you go. I try to follow the Dalai Lama as a good example of not caring about negative people, but my idols are all politicians who care a lot so I tend to follow them unfortunately haha

This is off topic, but your signature, Roxas, says that something's happening on the 29th of July 2012. What's the big event/celebration?

Actually, that needs to be updated, and July 29th is (was) the current date. The countdown is merely the number of days left from the date till the big event. Now as far as what that is... there's someone I've missed greatly this summer, but she will be returning to my hometown on August 23, 2012. The countdown is merely showing the time remaining until that happy reunion.

And Temple Grandia as well. She is tad smart about asperger's. To be honest. If you follow the society, you most likely to face consequences about negative and poor attitude. In the societal lifestyle, you find millions of people in that group have poor attitude. Would you rather live like that?