Why is telling your partner that your Autistic a bad thing?

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it's okay to tell your partner you actualy autistic as long as you don't use it as an excuse.

I got that once with not believing I was autistic but eventually she started to see some similarities, did not work though because it was not what I thought it was.
Though I do strongly disagree that if she does not care means it is a good thing. It could mean she has the same expectations of you as the typical partner and may not address your needs in the relationship.

I got to let you guys know something, i have AS and I have been in a relationship with an amazing girlfriend who is NT for about six months now. After we got into a relationship she found out I had AS and we she did she love me more! She told me it was a total honor for her to be in a romantic relationship with someone who had AS. She says people with AS are so amazing and beautiful compared to NT.

I think more people in the world are starting to realize this and i think we need to continue to try to inform the world about what AS really is so people have a better understanding of it because even though AS can be a struggle sometimes, i do agree with my girlfriend it is a wonderful beautiful thing to have that no one should be ashamed to have.