Here's what I look like, since i'm a new member.

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Improving your appearance a little doesn't mean that you are changing yourself unless you let a hairstyle or some clothing define your personality.

I like my appearance

Fake tan would have to be pretty light, otherwise you don't look attractive at all. You look creepy.
Not all women are interested in men with suits.
I wasn't in a suit the other day and I noticed that a girl still looked interested.
Besides if your judging people by their clothes or by their appearance, the same can be said for those thinking that changing your whole lifestyle will make it easier as it's the person they are, not the clothes or the appearance in terms of hairstyle or posture.

Not if the tan is done right and yes, a girl looked interested, that wasn't a girl looking interested. That was her inviting you to come and talk to her.

Had I not been otherwise occupied, I may have done.
Plus I know she wasn't looking interested, she was being polite and prepared in the event if I were to engage communication.

Fake tan?? What on earth is wrong with the colour of this guy's skin???

Must be a Snooki thing

I dunno either because I don't see anything wrong with his skin, I'm similar.
Must be because that looking white is now believed to look as though your ill or something.
That or Wh has a preference to how males should look to be attractive in his eyes.

Fake tan I don't really agree with. If you want better looking skin, eat more colorful veggies, especially carots. Why? Beta carotene.

First is no tan, and no/normal/low levels of carotenoid intake. Second is tanned. 3rd is no tan, and increased carotenoid intake.

Lots of fake tan products, especially pills, are just carotenoids, so with artificially increased intake of them, you'll look like Snookie, but if you just eat some more veggies you'll look great. My skin was pasty as all hell in 2009, then when I got my license picture retaken, it had a nicer "orange" color, but not super ridiculous orange, just nicer looking.

Anyway, I don't know what to say about clothes. I wear like, random used preppy clothes I buy for no money at Salvation Army. I like them better as people don't notice me and I don't stand out in public wearing them. I especially DON'T like wearing black tshirts, as then people start throwing around the "freaky" label more. But it's up to you, I do believe Woflheart is right, by wearing shirts like that you will *possibly* attract more nerdy/gamer girls, if that's who you wanna attract, but the problem is, they grow up, and at 30 you can't really hang around with teenage/college age girls anymore. There's some groups that will have girls your own age into that sorta thing (I used to belong to an anime club that did, well actually the girls were in short supply, but still) but it's rare. So no, not gonna be like Wolfheart and tell you to walk around in a suit and fake tan all day, but it's just something to consider.

Ya I dunno either, I actually like my skin. And besides...it's most likely my crappy laptop webcam over exposing my skin. This wolf guy seems like kinda a judgmental dick lol.

Realistic color of my skin taken with my good hd camcorder.



As you can see....plenty of color.

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH, the aliens are coming

Will they take me with?

nice beard, I shaved mine.

Thanks, I shaved mine down to stubble recently, which I do from time to time, then let it grow back thick again, an ongoing cycle haha. Until some girl tells me she prefers how I look clean shaven I'll continue to do so.

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