What do women like about the "bad boy"?

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09 Dec 2006, 11:24 pm

Heh.

Watch the movie What women want. that should answer everything.


though in my opinion, if the girl is a bad girl, she'll want a good boy who can possibly tame her, but at the same time, she'll want the good boy so she can bring out his wild side. though in all cases, both people need to have a bit of a wild side in them, because if they don't, then it's almost pointless to date them, because then there is nothing that needs fixing and the relationship ain't worth it.



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10 Dec 2006, 3:35 am

I've been typified as a 'bad boy'.

Women like to pursue, and bad boys are good at ignoring their advances, so they are considered interesting and a challenge.

However, once they figure out that i am NOT very bad at all... they leave! :wink:



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10 Dec 2006, 4:50 am

>>married and have a bunch of cavekids.

lol!! ! little oogalets



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10 Dec 2006, 7:20 am

Let's remember that the alpha male here in the United States is the president.

Alpha males aren't necessarily bad. Only in specific social circles can they be.


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10 Dec 2006, 8:36 am

MikeH106 wrote:
Let's remember that the alpha male here in the United States is the president.



Too simplified. Have him walk into gym and suddenly he is not alpha male anymore.



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10 Dec 2006, 10:34 am

MikeH106 wrote:
Let's remember that the alpha male here in the United States is the president.

Alpha males aren't necessarily bad. Only in specific social circles can they be.


I know a guy whose first instinct when around women is apparently to try to be the alpha male. He usually ends up looking like a complete prune... it's pretty embarrassing, really.

As for why women want a bad boy... my take on it has always been that they want the excitement that that kinda guy brings, as opposed to the safety and security that a nice guy would give her. It may also be an unconscious biological thing - an aggressive, powerful guy is more likely to be able to defend her than a meek, submissive type.


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10 Dec 2006, 2:13 pm

[quote="Gamester"]Heh.

Watch the movie What Women Want. that should answer everything.


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Another movie to rent is "Hitch", that romantic comedy with Will Smith.



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10 Dec 2006, 4:02 pm

On the surface I am a pretty nice guy. I think that kindness and helpfulness is a definite virtue. However, I am highly independent which has its good points and bad ones. I am my own social clique and instead of being in a group, I move between groups. I know this is not the kind of make-your-own-rules mentality that attracts girls to bad boys, but I am in the process of creating my own non-theistic ethical system. Instead of following set rules and the crowd, I try to follow reason. I'm writing a pretty dense paper on this now. When I'm done, I may post it on WP.


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10 Dec 2006, 4:13 pm

I'm not sure it's really that easy to pigeonhole people.

I'm an idealist and in some ways a bit of a hippy. But there are some things which are worth fighting for, no matter how "passive" I seem to be. And if I get to that stage, I'm not going to be messing around.

I wonder if a lot of Aspies are like that, if pushed?


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10 Dec 2006, 7:56 pm

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10 Dec 2006, 8:17 pm

"Bad boy" = less drive - less time - comes in 5mins - gone at first sign of commitment - doesn't really care about ye - say things you only want to hear - grabs his parts more often than he breathes - expects food on table - use's cutlery to itch a part and puts it back in the draw – say sorry I don’t know how you got pregnant you haven’t before without protection - ask's you to make him a cup but never returns it - thinks he’s hard yet picks on people that are not a challenge - more likely to cheat on you - less likely to stay with you could go on but i would have to exp more nt people to get into it more"" :P



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10 Dec 2006, 8:19 pm

Well then if we use the logic of Girls liking bad boys because they are a challenge....then where are all the women after me :-P I'm no bad boy but I've been called "Impossible to figure out" for along time now ;)



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10 Dec 2006, 8:25 pm

Murdal wrote:
Well then if we use the logic of Girls liking bad boys because they are a challenge....then where are all the women after me :-P I'm no bad boy but I've been called "Impossible to figure out" for along time now ;)


do you not care about them though and say things there want to hear yada yada + money thats bit too much not all are after money... mind games - deception also play a part in people...


" Should be a new book written " " Been a Nt & breaking the lying Circle disorder "" Sub title:- "finaly had enough of the Game of life thats in place these days "



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10 Dec 2006, 8:45 pm

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Murdal wrote:
Well then if we use the logic of Girls liking bad boys because they are a challenge....then where are all the women after me :-P I'm no bad boy but I've been called "Impossible to figure out" for along time now ;)


do you not care about them though and say things there want to hear yada yada + money thats bit too much not all are after money... mind games - deception also play a part in people...


" Should be a new book written " " Been a Nt & breaking the lying Circle disorder "" Sub title:- "finaly had enough of the Game of life thats in place these days "


Not to be rude but I'm having a very hard time processing your statement. Could you reword it?



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10 Dec 2006, 9:00 pm

using logic there like a challenge:- called "Impossible to figure out" for along time now :- but Challenge does not mean just the impossible to figure out – it also means hard to get them to go out with them.

Exp:- Persons who have previous experience in a trade and can provide proof of having worked in that field for a minimum of one year can, at the request of the employer, take a placement examination which can enable them to start their technical training at a more advanced level….

Got to understand Nt thinking to understand what I am banging on about even nt’s get confused lol

Bring out the big gun’s and try harder to get the person than there would on another.

Need advanced math’s to finish the challenge at the end of your abilities.

The computer is running slow because its at the end of its capabilities

Any of them help?



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10 Dec 2006, 9:09 pm

logitechdog wrote:
using logic there like a challenge:- called "Impossible to figure out" for along time now :- but Challenge does not mean just the impossible to figure out – it also means hard to get them to go out with them.

Exp:- Persons who have previous experience in a trade and can provide proof of having worked in that field for a minimum of one year can, at the request of the employer, take a placement examination which can enable them to start their technical training at a more advanced level….

Got to understand Nt thinking to understand what I am banging on about even nt’s get confused lol

Bring out the big gun’s and try harder to get the person than there would on another.

Need advanced math’s to finish the challenge at the end of your abilities.

The computer is running slow because its at the end of its capabilities

Any of them help?


Slightly better however (and again I hope you don't take this the wrong way) there is a vast lack of punctuation and grammar in both of your posts which make both posts incredibly hard to read (at least for myself). Hence, I am still having a problem fully comprehending what you're saying. What I have finnally gotten out of it though is that you're saying that "being impossible to figure out" does not equate to challenge.

I do think in the end you might have missed my attempt at sarcasm which is what my post was :)