Thanks mds. That's exactly what I was trying to tell him.
Unfortunately people are still very ignorant about Asperger's and it's not their fault, the media gives a lot of misinformation about it and links certain types of crime to it often. So just don't tell them to begin with, prove you can function just like anyone else and are just as nice as them other guys and when you get to a position where you have some sort of bond tell them in confidence and just explain it doesn't make you much different from anyone else but does make it hard for you to be sociable and stuff.