Hey girls, what do you look for in a guy?

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Honesty.
Healthy lifestyle.
Similiar views, but not exactly the same (If we were a hundred percent alike in that area, it would be terribly boring).
And yes, I admit it, looks do matter, because it is generally linked to health. I would not be attracted to a man who looks like he is one with the rodents.
INTELLIGENCE. Its mandatory.
Gentleness.
A sense of a humor.
Many varied interests.
No drugs, smoking and a limited appreciation of booze.
I would prefer that he have a job, or at least be a student. That shows he is steady.
Spontaneity.
And he would have to at least consider entering a serious relationship, because I am not interested in any other kind.

Interesting, smart, sometimes clever without being a douche, I need to be attracted for anything physical.(yet, im usually attraced for different reasons then the norm) similar interests. And i love when I can talk to somebody for hours. I recently had a crush on this smart super geeky guy. We just clicked. It was amazing. Not conventionaly good looking. But i was very attracted to the whole package. But alas, it couldnt be. He was recently separated from this crazy chick.(she did the leaving) yet, she felt the need to try to control his life.) Too much baggage and messines for me. Anyhoo, there it is.

2 cups Sense of humor
1 cup Similar interests,
Sprinkle in two tablespoons of attractivness,
Add a gallon of Understanding

Ta-da! Perfect guy cake.

*waiting anxiously for some lady to say that what she seeks in a man is this ->

I look for a guy who

can make me laugh til my stomach hurts. That is one of the most important.
is accepting of my issues and not pushy.
has compatible personality and interests.
is a "good person".
thinks I am the best thing since sliced bread.

There's of course no discreptency between what people think they want and thus say they want.. and how they act in reality but may not be aware of.

I look for...

Someone with similar general life views
Someone who is honest and open
Someone with intelligence or at least curiosity / thirst for knowledge
Someone I find physically attractive
Someone rational and sensible
Someone who is interested in me

*cracks knuckles*

1. INTELLIGENCE & EDUCATION
This is important. Intelligence is the ultimate aphrodisiac! This person needs to have a good level of understanding of events that happen around him. He would preferably be academically minded and interested in new developments in science/the humanities. I have a thing for boys who like physics and mathematics, but it's not a "requirement," so to speak.

"Education" means they've gone out of their way to be well-learned. They should know about fields outside their area of interest (math majors, learn history!). They should always be interesting people to talk to.

2. ATTRACTIVENESS
This is not confined to physical attractiveness. Attractiveness has to do with how I see the quality of a person, so to speak. They should be what I consider good people, morally upright, honest about their shortcomings, preferably have a good sense of humor and be physically attractive. Please note: physical attractiveness can be something that "grows on you" (see Jane Eyre - Eyre grows to love Mr. Rochester and eventually becomes attracted to his unconventional looks).

3. CARING & LOYAL (& ADVENTUROUS)
They will show that they love me so that I never have to ask myself, "does this person love me?" They like to do crazy things with me. They'll not only make plans - they'll take the chance.

My top three. Being interesting is very important for me. You can be an absolutely beautiful man, but you'll be nothing more than eye candy to me if nothing of worth comes out of your mouth.

Atheism, leftism (veganism, communism, feminism, etc), marriage-minded
Straight-edge preferred, but not required

I suposse that will leave me single for the rest of my life ..lol
I am not clever,and it looks like every girl wants a clever man.....i have aspergers but i am not one of the clever ones the only thing i have to offer is i am loyal trustworthy romantic and have a kind heart....if thats not enough for some women ..then i will always be single