This woman definitely likes me

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zombie smiling?why must you say nasty things? If she is interested she can as me out...I am not going to make myself look like a fool fora girl who is probably playing games. For now ill just talk to her lol. We were taling about her improving my spanish and me improving her english sp i could bring that up as a meeting motivator.

I dont know man.

Ive waited 90% of my life for people of both genders to approach me and it turned out that over 70% of this times they had a hidden motive/wanted to take advantage from me.

Things have changed now but I just want to put it out there that waiiting isnt a smart choice in most occassions.

As an NT woman, I can tell you that many women will not ask a guy out and not because they are old fashioned or because they think it's the man's job but because it's been drilled into their heads that guys do not like to be chased. They like to do the chasing, as Greg Berendt says in "He's Just Not That Into You."

From what you've said, I think she is definitely attracted to you. I do not think she is playing games. But that doesn't mean she wants to break up with her boyfriend. Some women like to flirt without needing it to lead anywhere immediately. (I am one of those women.) I would suggest that you occasionally ask about him to see if she's still dating him. (i.e. How's your boyfriend? or are you still seeing that guy?) If she tells you they broke up, that would be a prime opportunity for you.

Good luck.

My apologies, I thought you could handle a bit of joking around.
I will not joke around with your tender self again.
Maybe your heart is too fragile ATM?
And its best not to approach her for a date?

im not willing to take the risk of asking her out. I bet she is attracted to me but as another poster said, not enough to leave her bf. She has always been flirty with me even when she mentioned about her bf. I do occasionally ask how her bf is but i think it's been months since I did. It feels awkward and like it''s ruining my ''fantasy'' that she likes me when i ask about another guy lol. she is very cute an nice though..shame. Guys like me don;t luck out in that area.

Often girls mention a BF just to let you know, does not mean she may not want to date you once..... it means 'dont get hung up on me I'm attached, but that could change....'

[ attached/even married women date others and leave their previous b.f all the time......]

Just ask, it will be good practise for next time

I try to ask a girl out at least once a day......
it gets easier and your confidence grows......
often I succeed and never even follow it up
its a good confidence booster
Just like for women being asked....
Chatting up women and flirting is the beginning
Of being successful at dating


to me she is just screaming to you to be asked out.....
[must be all that premium meats eh]

i've got some premium meat for her :p

I hate how some girls flirt for fun. One of the posters in this thread owned up to it...and it's a prettycrummy thing to do.
I do appreciate her post though :p honestly just felt like bumping the thread up lol.

Now that I've done a lot of research and reading on aspergers, I can understand why it would seem crummy from your perspective. But please know we - at least I - don't flirt to tease or to be mean. If I flirt, it's because I am genuinely drawn to the man I am flirting with. Sometimes a woman will flirt because she is approached first and gets caught up in the man's attention. I don't start the flirting unless I want it to lead somewhere.

Just wanted to clarify that.

I see contradictions in your posts. I appreciate the attempt to clarify but in your first post you said that you flirt without expecting it to lead anywhere which contradicts with your last sentence here.

I'll give you two bits for every female human you approach in real life and use the phrase, "pleased to meet you - with meat to please you!"

I'd love to know the smile-to-frown ratio on that one...




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two bits of what? lol
man i can say anything to girls in real life and it wouldnt matter they just arent into me

Lol, if I was only that likeable at my job.

But yeah, it's kind of hard acting like that as client when my co-worker stands next to me. xD

I think the first step is finding out if she still has a boyfriend or not. February was 8 months ago, things change.


Also, am I the only one who finds the concept of hitting on people you don't know, who you just met in public, particularly when they are working at a job, completely baffling? For the longest time my Dad thought I was gay because I wasn't flirting with waitresses when we would go out for dinner. He would claim they were flirting with me, but I just saw any friendliness from a waitress being them just trying to get a good tip. Besides, they are doing their job, I would think it would come off as rude to hit on them while they are just trying to get paid, but I guess people do that. I just can't get myself to.

Don't do it.

I worked in retail and everyone flirted with everyone.

It's just a way to relieve the stress and spice up the day.

Do what you want to do, but I doubt it will turn out the way you want it.

i have nothing to lose...as it is im prob gonna die a kissless sob.
any advice on how to bring up her bf without taking attention from me