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I would love to marry an Asian woman and have mixed aspie babies!

I love Asian chicks, but... some have really really shallow personality.

Chinese girls may appear shallow on the surface, but to me they seem to often be far more mentally tough than most other girls.

This seems to be the most driving factor. I've planned at one point going to Japan for studying, and so I've talked about it with both European and Japanese. One conversation with a female professor of laws was pretty enlightening in this regard. She said that in Japan, it is still very common that women are expected to finish high school, and then get married, have children and being a housekeeper. There is still a significant amount of women who get their first child in their very early twenties. Thing is, a dramatically increasing number of women does not want a life like that, they want higher education and a career of their own. The professor herself was indeed married to a "gaijin", and she said many women fantasize of having a man from a western culture because they are more likely to accept their choice of career over early family. Also, consider that there are indeed a vast amount of western men who are simply attracted to the "exotic" look of asian women. It works the other way around, as well.

Here in Germany, we actually find ourselves in a rather similar situation with women whose family comes from islamic/muslim culture. Surveys suggest that in the eye of more westernized, integrated muslim women, her "ideal" partner is often a German who converted to islam. He would have "the right" belief, and still be much more open and liberal than men from the still very traditionalist and male-centred islamic culture. One of my best lady friends is turkish, and she has voiced to me that she is indeed very tired of the machoism that all turkish men she knows have going, and from meeting some of them, I can definitely verify that all have that certain "douchebaggery" about them, and that they indeed are only friends with her to get into her panties, and that they indeed want to marry a woman to have, more or less, a private servant at home to father children with (without wanting to derail, yes, I am perfectly aware that the fact that she said she'd like a more gentle, quiet and "western" guy is a pretty obvious sign that she is quite into me... but even though she is rather kind and cute, being muslim is a deal breaker for me when it comes to women.)

During the Korean and Vietnam wars the Asian women often thought that American G.I.s were really attractive.

What about Asian mens' wants

Tell you then truth, around me, I have seen a huge increase of the coupling caucasian girl with asian (and we are not talking arabic, but sino-asian) men, and I've read other reports about this as well. I think it is because people from these cultures usually do not openly display the kind of "machoism" western women don't like. Like I've said before, it can be very deceiving, but at least if they come to a western country, I think they are more inclined to adapt, as it is with sino-asian families coming to western countries in general (seriously, in Germany, the most integrated families come from vietnam. More than 90% of vietnamese immigrants' children finish german grammar school, which is the highest degree of non-college education you can achieve, no matter the social status or profession of their parents.). I think it is a good thing. After all, it is one of the assets of the world becoming increasingly smaller: We get closer together, and every contact that does not result in war, death and destruction over superficial reasons... it's a good thing, I tell ya.

A lot of Asian women I have hung out with tend to get very hyper and extremely talkative on the phone I dont mind the hyperactivity but the talking for hours on the phone is slightly bothersome but I can deal with that. They can be clingy too I can live with that as well!!

I guess I was thinking about indian men rather than sino-asian. I don't know much about either.

Oh, you live in California, no wonder you like, know Asians. Here in New England, not a ton of them. Mostly Vietnamese and Chinese here also. Also there's about zero Japanese people in my state (CT.) The only ones in my state live here but work in NYC. Seriously I think there's like 1000 total Japanese people.

I used to think that I was just really not attracted to Asian girls, really I came to understand that its the submissiveness or innocence that's culturally bread which I have an aversion to. That said if she's more self-authoritative, strong, autonomous, and has a galaxy between her ears - that I could be into, then again I have a hard enough time finding that here let alone in cultures that severely frown upon that.

Amazingly most Asian women are strong willed and when they want something they go for it regardless of their shyness at first.

All the same, I need a partner in life which means someone who can meet me eye to eye like an equal, think like an equal, etc. etc.. Its not to say they're wrong for being otherwise, its culture, just that on my own personal needs I need someone who inspires me, challenges me, and energetically makes me think quite often "Wow is she cool". Someone who's more a natural born leader and marches to the beat of her own drum. Both guys and girls and Asian culture are quite often raised on the old Confucian "The nail that sticks out will be hammered down", that's starting to change and you're seeing it with some of the music videos coming from there. For now though, where things are at I think I'll still have a slight preference toward 'firecracker' races and yes, if a white non-latina can meet that her as well, or an Asian - I'm just as open minded but I just highly doubt the odds for the latter based on percentages (and obviously second/third generation US doesn't count because by the time you're born here you're far more often than not raised on our culture which, while it still pushes a lot of submission and conformity, its not nearly as regressive).

Their cultures value image and face highly. The ideal women is generally considered to be quiet, supportive yet strong of 'her man'.

However, that image is what is shown to outsiders. When I lived with a host family in Japan the wife was.. well, meek, when her husband spoke to others or had visitors and such. Once they were in their family environment however... wow. she was definitely not meek or anything. They shared everything and spoke to each other as equals. It was quite an impressive thing to watch.

I think in their societies there is still a very defined and respected male and female role. Something akin to what the USA had in the 1930s~1950s. In asia today, those roles remain strong within the family circle but have been westernized (mostly) in the workforce.

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I think it may be true; my sis is marrying a white guy.

As for me...... that just makes me want to say, "I see your white guy, and I give ya....... a white woman fo' me!"