Failing my classes because no girl is interested in me, help

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The OP is not failing literally because of a lack of a girlfriend, but the depression and loneliness of being single is killing his motivation to study and do well.

I can understand and relate. Usually, what I do is just remind myself that it will happen eventually.

Just keep in mind the female thought process is different.

Say to hell with women. You're letting your life be ruined by some phantom that doesn't even exist.

Live for yourself. Believe in yourself. Focus on making yourself the best you can be, so one day YOU can be the choosy one, YOU can make THEM pursue YOU.

Because the power women have are fleeting. Beauty fades. Intelligence, success is far longer. Be the best you can be, focus on being happy with yourself. Assume you will live alone forever, and focus on how to be the happiest in this situation.

Don't let ANYONE mess with your life, especially some figment.

Anti-Depressants only work as a temporary "crutch" for dealing with that emotional pain. Eventually after a while, they start to lose their effects. I've found out that dealing with my episodes of those thoughts is talking it out. Sure, there have been times where it fells as if I sound like a broken record to people, and I've even mentioned that to people before, but they were usually chill about it and were open to what I had to say. You've gotta talk to people you trust that will listen with an open mind.

Yeah, agree with what someone said about having a GF being a distraction. If your peers are having success with the girls it might be at the expense of their grades (doing more partying and hooking up than studying). Same with the girls, they're probably partying and failing just as much.

Things can be a total distraction for me even if I have a crush let alone a boyfriend. Maybe the OP's depression is over one girl (or a few) in particular instead of all girls in general, I dunno. The OP seemed too vague for me to react to.

If you have an obsession with sex or girls, that may be an indicator of depression, OCD, a thought disorder, or some other issue that may be treatable with medication. My own problems with sexual obsession improved dramatically when I got proper treatment for OCD. If the obsession is strong enough to prevent you from functioning, the likelihood of some underlying condition is especially high.

It's called "Sarcasm", AR. It sometimes works better at getting the message through when reason and logic have failed.

The answer is obvious....you need to detach yourself from women and focus on your school work. Why do you want to be with women who are immature anyways?

The problem is you're the type who is caught up in what you DON'T have and can't appreciate what you DO have. Say you do hook up with a girl, will that necessarily solve the problem? Probably not, seeing that now you have baggage that comes with a relationship plus you'll then probably be like "Well my girlfriend is not as hot or as smart or as fun as everyone else's" because nothing is good enough for you.

It's really hard to be alone, if your not the type of person who likes being alone.

The advice being given is MUCH harder to execute than to give.

I would offer one thing, a lot of these dumb s**ts will eventually fail out of life, and end up on the welfare or under employed, and full of baby mamma drama and eventually a majority of the girls will get over their fascination with dumb s**ts and then they will come looking for the smart guys.