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she wants hang out after 8 on Friday..im nervous to meet at night lol

the boss strikes again
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llol this sucks..both girls say they are free on friday.

Meet both. Tell one something has came up and you have to either meet them early or go out with them on sat. And meet the other fri night

screw pofscrew it.
the first girl asked me to meet hvr today after 8 but didnt respond to my messages trying to arrange an exact time/place. I just looked and she blocked me WTF?????

The second girl asked if i could meet her today and i said yah sure what time is good. well she to didn't reply and today after asking hr why she told me distant family surprised her on thanksgiving and she cant do anything..she didnt even ask to reschedule.

fucing time wasting b*****s on that site.

It's always the same crap.

I now the first girl is real too because someone from my apsie group said he knows her. i bet that dousche told her not to go with me...while wishing me luck on fb what a pis backstabber.

Maybe you shouldn't call anyone a time wasting b***h. I mean maybe your general vibe is what puts women off?

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I don't think they're necessarily time wasters. You didn't exactly pose the 'date' as a question so it's hard to respond to that without being straight out rude.
IE.
What you doing this weekend?
Hanging out with you.
....UM I don't think so.

They were probably trying to be polite it doesn't seem to be that they really committed to anything. Being a time waster would be giving you a date, time, and place, and then telling you just before hand they couldn't make it.

I have vaguely committed to meeting ppl before when i really have no intention too just because it seems quite rude to directly say no. However when it comes to nutting out the details, I make it clear I can't.
I don't think I"m a time waster. Although they didn't have to start avoiding you/block you. But maybe they felt you weren't getting the hint.

In my experience flaking occurs roughly 80% of the time. This is for women who have agreed to a date based on bar/club interaction. Women in bars/clubs who have simply given you a phone number seem even more likely to flake (I've never had a successful interaction with just a phone number).

Online dates seem less likely to happen, but also less likely to result in being stood up. My experience is limited because I'm not (apparently) very good at online dating.

Dates arranged with classmates or "friends of friends" seem to be much more reliable. Dates suggested by the woman (and not by you) are also more reliable (though I've been stood up in those cases as well).

By and large, have no expectations. Even if she's naked and you're making out with her ("advanced" making out), sex is not certain and a relationship is far from ensured. At any stage on the path toward a long term relationship, a woman may "drop out" without explanation. Tolerance for flaking is essential (whether your goal is a LTR or just casual sex).

As a corollary: Save "like a boss" boasts until you actually get laid.

It's a matter of persistence, there will always be people that are going to flake.

As Boo said in a previous thread, either act like you don't care about rejection or say to them that you are very embarrassed because you would have had to cancel anyway.

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