Discrimination in dating!

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Sadly I just end up with flings 90% of the time and not official relationships. I want more than a fling *although I do like sex* I want more than that.

Im kinda glad im not with a judgmental NT woman anyway good riddince because if I was and had kids she would be like this.[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S5Ztv1FoHz8[/youtube]

By definition choosing who to date is discrimination. It's a discretionary choice for each individual every time. No one nor nothing forces anyone to date whom they don't personally choose. Would anyone want it otherwise?

Sadly there is alot of discrimination and/or prejudice

when it comes to looking for a loving relationship eiather in the real world or via a dating site online
when I explained that I have aspergers and that I was a very caring and very loving kind guy who was looking for a long term relationship
(I put it much better than this plus with a nice profile showing lots of films and books and tv shows I liked ect and all the kind of qualities I have) and hoping to see if there was a lady who I clicked ect and I had 6 photos showing me so any potential lady could see if she liked the look of me cause the first connection you make with someone is visually

I've tried both ways and when I told on my dating profile that I had Aspergers - I barely had 2 to 4 replies the whole 9months I was on there - but the other time when I did'nt say on my profile I had aspergers I had roughly 34 messages within 7months - which left me very downheartened and very down cause I'd eventually tell the lady which I liked and it'd fall apart cause eiather she understood what Aspergers is or she'd have a warped idea of what aspergers might be so the few ladies I tried to date would just reject me

Through my life experience I know there definately is prejudice by the way I was treated differently if people knew I had aspergers

sorry it's hard to put into words sorry for my poor grammer/wriiting I am also dyslexic

hope nobody minds me popping on and commenting

How is it discrimination to not date someone that you do not want to date?

If say, I'm single and think a guy is hot and then talk to him and he's schizo, or a psychopath, or even has the mental capacity of a 12 year old, and that just doesn't fit with who I envision myself with in the future, how am I discriminating by not going out with him?

Would it be discrimination to not go out with a woman who had been charged with murdering her last three boyfriends, but she got off on a technicality?

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I think it is discrimination/prejudice if the person is choosing to not give you a chance to see if you could be the Love of their live purely just because you are black or white or because you have aspergers or for any other silly reason

I respect some1 just may not find you attractive as a poss life long future partner - but to not give some1 a chance just because they have aspergers even though you find them attractive and if you gave them a chance you'd find out they are a very loving kind and caring person who has lots of great qualities that some1 is looking for in their future life long loving partner - and to just write them off because they have aspersgers and to not even give them a chance to find out if they could be The1 I find very very disheartening

Cause even though we have aspergers we can still be very loving kind caring people that have alot to offer a potential life partner (For those of us with aspergers that do want and are seeking an equally kind caring loving and understanding poss life partner )

I believe in Equality

Not Prejudice

Cause if some1 find a person with aspergers attractive but changing their mind just because they read on your dating profile that they have aspergers.....I think is very very sad and you should only base your dating preference like you would with some1 who does'nt have aspergers that you do find attractive cause I fully respect every1s right to be with the people they love and find attractive and if you dont find some1 attractive because of the way they physically look and for what they are like on the inside as a person then it's every1s right to carry on in their search for their The1

Sorry for my poor writting/grammer

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god damn, what a b***h