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The_Face_of_Boo
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06 Dec 2012, 11:44 am

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boo, just move to london where youll find an office job and marry smudge already. you guys fight more than an old married couple


I would move to Germany instead and marry that gorgeous girl who has the hots for me there (*cough* you saw her *cough okc*)

yes she visited my profile too boo. Though im glad to hear she seems nice.


She is and she's.... well... another 'n' ;p and she's probably one of the most gorgeous creatures alive on okcupid, maybe her and hale_bopp (oops, I said it) - looks-wise at least.

We've exchanged countless of messages but well.... distance sucks.



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06 Dec 2012, 1:01 pm

You were really off with me. What have I done wrong?



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06 Dec 2012, 3:36 pm

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You were really off with me. What have I done wrong?


Nothing, nothing at all. :lol:

....or maybe?



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06 Dec 2012, 6:27 pm

Update:

The second girl is extremely jealous.



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07 Dec 2012, 3:28 am

I was going to ask you to send one of them my way, but then I noticed none of them, by your description, actually appeals to me.



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07 Dec 2012, 10:36 am

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I was going to ask you to send one of them my way, but then I noticed none of them, by your description, actually appeals to me.



ايه تع لهون و نأي
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07 Dec 2012, 11:21 am

If you don't know which girl you want to be with more by now, maybe none of them is good for you?



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07 Dec 2012, 2:04 pm

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If you don't know which girl you want to be with more by now, maybe none of them is good for you?



I wanted the first but it's her, not me.



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09 Dec 2012, 9:34 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
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You were really off with me. What have I done wrong?


Nothing, nothing at all. :lol:

....or maybe?


Oh, you tease. :roll:



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09 Dec 2012, 9:34 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
I wanted the first but it's her, not me.


Who needs the button now? :twisted:



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09 Dec 2012, 12:22 pm

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I wanted the first but it's her, not me.


Who needs the button now? :twisted:


:-| huh?


Yea, not it wasn't a total failure.

The girl didn't really reject me, she's just.... lost.



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09 Dec 2012, 1:51 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
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I wanted the first but it's her, not me.


Who needs the button now? :twisted:


:-| huh?


Yea, not it wasn't a total failure.

The girl didn't really reject me, she's just.... lost.


That's most often a form of rejection. Sorry mate.



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10 Dec 2012, 1:09 am

I may be off the mark here, but I think what Boo is trying to say is that it's only a rejection if the person perceives it to be so.



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10 Dec 2012, 3:42 pm

MCalavera wrote:
I may be off the mark here, but I think what Boo is trying to say is that it's only a rejection if the person perceives it to be so.


Don't you mean, "failure"? A person only fails if they perceive it to be so, but a rejection is a rejection.



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11 Dec 2012, 4:47 pm

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I may be off the mark here, but I think what Boo is trying to say is that it's only a rejection if the person perceives it to be so.


Don't you mean, "failure"? A person only fails if they perceive it to be so, but a rejection is a rejection.


I went with this girl 3 times in total (yes one more time after i made this thread) with continuous communication (if I don't initiate, she initiates).

Things would be too different if she didn't get that job in Qatar (which was confirmed just a day after the third meeting up)..

Her one-time 'rejection' (which was before the second date) was due to fact that she was almost certain she'll move to another country- she literally said earlier "we'll probably get nowhere because I might go abroad soon". Funnily enough, she accepted to go out with me again after she believed that she won't get the job (because they took too long to reply) - but she got it at the end.


So no, that girl really liked me but she was just being realistic.