A fling with a celebrity

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I've never been bragging on this forum as much as I'm aware of. I have shared my experiences as the other members have. I am not someone who likes to whine about having mistreated by all men or women in the globe, which probably does differ to certain members here. I get wanted and unwanted attention as much as any young woman does and struggle with finding a person to love as much as anyone. I have a lot of insecurities as probably many aspies have.

It's not exactly the worst possible situation for a person to be in and I've never claimed it to be. However, I'm a young aspie woman who feels very confused and overwhelmed by it. There's not exactly a guide book telling how one is supposed to feel after fulfilling a not-so-serious dreams about sleeping with their idol. Frankly, I don't even give myself merit for anything. The way I see it I was just lucky, with him having recently become single and momentarily feeling in need of company. Most unlikely situation, but apparently it happened.

I've said jokingly in one thread that I get enough male and female attention. I doubt I've ever said anything negative directed at you even though you have directed a great number of negative posts at others. Perhaps you should try to be nice at people for once and you might get more positive attention from the girls. I'm flattered, if you feel jealous about something I've been through IRL, but it's really unnecessary.

Thank you Nascaireacht and blue_bean...

You have good points and they are much appreciated. I am trying to reason with myself to resist the temptation and leave everything as a lovely memory. He's obviously careful with his private affairs, but it is true that the paparazzi are quite keen to follow him and who's he with now that he's single again (not that I even think he'd actually be willing show up with me outside the closed doors).

And for the record to anyone... I'm not trying to insult anyone here by talking about this topic. I know well enough how much a lot of people here struggle with dating and sometimes even talking with the opposite sex. I think I was just lucky with this guy feeling very needy, as all I really did was say "Hey" to him and follow his invitation after a week, so I'm not exactly some sort of devilish enchantress.

I have been told time and time again, good stuff will happen when you are least expecting it... especially for guys

there are 30 yr old virgins here man lol.

Probably the reason that it seemed like you had good chemistry was that this guy has had sex with literally hundreds of women. Probably you are just another girl that is a part of his routine.

I haven't seen any of your pictures, but I would guess from your post that you must be flaming hot.



I always had a very low opinion of humanity, so I always thought that if there was somebody that the majority of people liked, then he must be a douche or an idiot. So I don't know anything about celebrities or anything like that.

Could he bend it like Beckham?

Let's just say he has a HUGE talent

I have a huge talent too, been called a horse.

I think i had already told you my thoughts on the situation. But if they werent clear you can reask me in private.

probably all dat dere damn chest hair :p

Neigh!

I've got to agree with Blue Bean here.

I have been on dates with a celeberity before - it took me halfway through the first date to click where I knew his face from. We went on 4 dates total and I never slept with him.
I shudder to think how that could have ended now even though we never really did anything except kiss, since I hate public attention.

In my opion, this isn't worth it. Especially if you value your privacy.
While it's true - these celebs are just people.
But the other part of the problem is that they are so used to having any woman that they want fall at their feet, and play along with their game - always their way or the high way. I think it's best to leave the situation as is now, you got what you wanted, you know exactly were he's at and you know that won't change at all. It's probably best to extract yourself now with good grace while you still have a semi-clear head.

You already know what the outcome of this will be.
The only question is, are you doing do it with ill grace or with good grace?

Soon we will find out that all girls here have dated celebs.

When they say celebrity, they actually mean someone with a few thousand views on a youtube channel.

Oh really haha? I've been on dates with Anne Hathaway and Boo has got a hot date with Natalie Portman tonight.

Yea, Portman begged me for that date despite her being israeli-born, now that would be some worthy gossip.