Friend trying to wingman me

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I may not know how other women do things at times. But she slept with you. That is a big indicator she likes you.
I would suggest you ask her to be your gf and forget about the other guy. Frankly you need to sit down with her and talk to her about whether she wants to be your gf or not. Until you do you'll get nothing. By the way it's been 10 years since I dated but when I did if I had a "sleep over" w/nobody else around it generally meant sex.

As for going to Japan long distance relationships work too and you might study some Japanese and find you enjoy traveling.

Long distance is not my thing.
Tried it once and it went really bad plus i don't have the money to go to Japan since i'm spending money on transport back and forth from school and other things.
And asking her to be my gf like that, no.
That's coming on too strong i'd say. I'd rather let it go with the flow and see where it ends if it ends anywhere.

Still not gonna do that.
As i said before, i'm a cosplayer. Most cosplayers in DK tend to know each other sort of. There is always s**t loads of drama with people. I have no intention to blurt something stupid out that that will come on very strongly and also be used as gossip against me somehow.
How for example? Well, my ex's ex had a huge crush on her. Most people know each other somehow or know of the familiar faces at conventions.

I have no intention of starting an official bf/gf relationship that will end in a couple of months anyway due to her going to japan.
And my friend is a problem alright.
He keeps doing stupid s**t like tagging me in conversations and posts where she posts on facebook which to me would look like something extremely desperate and pathetic.
Sadly that's how it is, he won't stop, thus i won't stop telling him to choke on food or something else.
Eternal bickering back and forth. Typical male bonding where you trash each other with name calling and what not.