Dating & relationship success survey for MEN

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JanuaryMan
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18 Feb 2013, 2:07 pm

I have to say there are some patterns emerging. Not sure how useful it is to anyone else but they're interesting enough to me. Anyways, I'll jump out of this one now. Best left for other participants and discussion in a concluding topic.



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18 Feb 2013, 2:27 pm

Age (in years and months):

22 years 0 months

Relationship status (bold applicable): Single/in a relationship/married or defacto/divorced or separated/widowed

Age when you had your first relationship (in years and months. If you're still waiting to have your first put "NA"):

NA

Number of relationships you've had (including online ones):

0

How long did each relationship last (in years and months)?:

NA

Number of physical dates you've been on:

0

How many of the above dates progressed to a relationship?:

0

Are you a virgin? (bold applicable): Yes/No

Age when you lost your virginity (in years and months. If you're a virgin put "NA"):

NA

Number of sexual partners you've had:

0



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18 Feb 2013, 3:36 pm

Just so the Dr. doesn't cry.


Age (in years and months): 30, 11 months

Relationship status (bold applicable): Single/in a relationship/married or defacto/divorced or separated/widowed

Age when you had your first relationship (in years and months. If you're still waiting to have your first put "NA"): 30

Number of relationships you've had (including online ones): 3

How long did each relationship last (in years and months)?: 1 month, 3 weeks, a third under dvlpt

Number of physical dates you've been on: 7

How many of the above dates progressed to a relationship?: 2

Are you a virgin? (bold applicable): Yes/No

Age when you lost your virginity (in years and months. If you're a virgin put "NA"): na

Number of sexual partners you've had: did some sexual activities (phone and physical) with the 3 weeks girl - but no penetration so I dunno if this counts.



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18 Feb 2013, 4:22 pm

Age (in years and months): 22

Relationship status (bold applicable): Single/in a relationship/married or defacto/divorced or separated/widowed

Age when you had your first relationship (in years and months. If you're still waiting to have your first put "NA"): 18

Number of relationships you've had (including online ones): 1

How long did each relationship last (in years and months)?: 2+ years

Number of physical dates you've been on: Like a one night stand? Zero I guess

How many of the above dates progressed to a relationship?: See above

Are you a virgin?: yes/No

Age when you lost your virginity: 18

Number of sexual partners you've had: 1



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18 Feb 2013, 8:54 pm

Age (in years and months): 24 and 2-3 months

Relationship status (bold applicable): Single

Age when you had your first relationship (in years and months. If you're still waiting to have your first put "NA"): N/A
many months )

Number of relationships you've had (including online ones): N/A

How long did each relationship last (in years and months)?: N/A

Number of physical dates you've been on: N/A

How many of the above dates progressed to a relationship?: N/A

Are you a virgin? (bold applicable): Yes

Age when you lost your virginity (in years and months. If you're a virgin put "NA"): N/A

Number of sexual partners you've had: N/A



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18 Feb 2013, 10:03 pm

Age (in years and months): 25 and 10

Relationship status (bold applicable): Single/in a relationship/married or defacto/divorced or separated/widowed

Age when you had your first relationship (in years and months. If you're still waiting to have your first put "NA"): N/A

Number of relationships you've had (including online ones): N/A

How long did each relationship last (in years and months)?: N/A

Number of physical dates you've been on: 2

How many of the above dates progressed to a relationship?: N/A

Are you a virgin? (bold applicable): Yes/No

Age when you lost your virginity (in years and months. If you're a virgin put "NA"): N/A

Number of sexual partners you've had: N/A



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18 Feb 2013, 10:12 pm

Age (in years and months): 30 years, and 6 months

Relationship status (bold applicable): Single/in a relationship/married or defacto/divorced or separated/widowed

Age when you had your first relationship (in years and months. If you're still waiting to have your first put "NA"): NA

Number of relationships you've had (including online ones): NA

How long did each relationship last (in years and months)?: NA

Number of physical dates you've been on: NA

How many of the above dates progressed to a relationship?: NA

Are you a virgin? (bold applicable): Yes/No

Age when you lost your virginity (in years and months. If you're a virgin put "NA"): NA

Number of sexual partners you've had: 0



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19 Feb 2013, 1:18 am

Age (in years and months):26 years and 9 days away from 8 months

Relationship status (bold applicable): Single/in a relationship/married or defacto/divorced or separated/widowed

Age when you had your first relationship (in years and months. If you're still waiting to have your first put "NA"):NA

Number of relationships you've had (including online ones):0

How long did each relationship last (in years and months)?:NA

Number of physical dates you've been on:0

How many of the above dates progressed to a relationship?:NA

Are you a virgin? (bold applicable): Yes/No

Age when you lost your virginity (in years and months. If you're a virgin put "NA"):]NA

Number of sexual partners you've had:0


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19 Feb 2013, 1:29 am

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Interesting how the people that always give out dating advice haven't answered either of the genders surveys


People are welcome to PM me their answers if they're not comfortable drawing attention in the open. They'll be kept confidential. I've received a few answers via PM already.

Any guy hetero or gay is welcome to post answers too.



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19 Feb 2013, 1:30 am

This is the only way to settle the whole "which gender has it worse" thing that some guys here seem so obsessed with. So these questions are useful. But be aware that the criticisms of the cdc study in this thread will probably apply here too.

Sorry, can't remember everything down to the month, so just years here.

Age (in years and months): 31and 5 months

Relationship status (bold applicable): in a relationship

Age when you had your first relationship (in years and months. If you're still waiting to have your first put "NA"): 17

Number of relationships you've had (including online ones): 4

How long did each relationship last (in years and months)?: 2 years, 6 months, 3 months, and the current one has been 6 years so far

Number of physical dates you've been on: rough estimate; 35-40 dates (only counting firsts)

How many of the above dates progressed to a relationship?: 2, the two longer relationships didn't begin with what I'd describe as "dates"

Are you a virgin?: no

Age when you lost your virginity (in years and months. If you're a virgin put "NA"): 15

Number of sexual partners you've had: 22



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19 Feb 2013, 5:15 am

Age (in years and months): 31 years, and 10 months

Relationship status (bold applicable): Single/in a relationship/married or defacto/divorced or separated/widowed

Age when you had your first relationship (in years and months. If you're still waiting to have your first put "NA"): NA

Number of relationships you've had (including online ones): NA

How long did each relationship last (in years and months)?: NA

Number of physical dates you've been on: NA

How many of the above dates progressed to a relationship?: NA

Are you a virgin? (bold applicable): Yes/No

Age when you lost your virginity (in years and months. If you're a virgin put "NA"): NA

Number of sexual partners you've had: 0



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19 Feb 2013, 6:24 am

Age (in years and months): 28

Relationship status (bold applicable): Single/in a relationship/married or defacto/divorced or separated/widowed

Age when you had your first relationship (in years and months. If you're still waiting to have your first put "NA"): 22

Number of relationships you've had (including online ones): 2

How long did each relationship last (in years and months)?: 2 months @ 22 & 6 months @ 27

Number of physical dates you've been on: maybe about 30

How many of the above dates progressed to a relationship?: 2

Are you a virgin? (bold applicable): Yes/No

Age when you lost your virginity (in years and months. If you're a virgin put "NA"): 22

Number of sexual partners you've had: 2



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19 Feb 2013, 6:31 am

Now, onto the questionnaire;


Age (in years and months): 21 years , 11 months

Relationship status (bold applicable): Single/in a relationship/married or defacto/divorced or separated/widowed

Age when you had your first relationship (in years and months. If you're still waiting to have your first put "NA"): 14, not sure about the months part

Number of relationships you've had (including online ones): 2

How long did each relationship last (in years and months)?: first lasted for 2 months, current one since september

Number of physical dates you've been on: 3

How many of the above dates progressed to a relationship?: All of them where with the first girl when i was 14

Are you a virgin? (bold applicable): Yes/No

Age when you lost your virginity (in years and months. If you're a virgin put "NA"): NA

Number of sexual partners you've had: [/quote] None



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19 Feb 2013, 10:43 am

JanuaryMan wrote:
I have to say there are some patterns emerging. Not sure how useful it is to anyone else but they're interesting enough to me. Anyways, I'll jump out of this one now. Best left for other participants and discussion in a concluding topic.


One pattern I've noticed (in both threads) that those who started dating/sex at early age are being more successful.



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19 Feb 2013, 12:15 pm

Age (in years and months):

24

Relationship status (bold applicable): Single/in a relationship/married or defacto/divorced or separated/widowed

Single

Age when you had your first relationship (in years and months. If you're still waiting to have your first put "NA"):

21

Number of relationships you've had (including online ones):

Counting the non-serious ones, that would be 4-5.

How long did each relationship last (in years and months)?:

Longest was 8 months.

Number of physical dates you've been on:

Lost count ages ago. :D

How many of the above dates progressed to a relationship?:

Very few.

Are you a virgin? (bold applicable): Yes/No

No.

Age when you lost your virginity (in years and months. If you're a virgin put "NA"):

20

Number of sexual partners you've had:

9



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20 Feb 2013, 4:38 pm

Age:
24 years, 9 months
Relationship status:
single
Age when you had your first relationship:
23 years, 7 months
Number of relationships you've had:
1
How long did each relationship last?:
2.5 months
Number of physical dates you've been on:
4
How many of the above dates progressed to a relationship?:
1
Are you a virgin?:
no
Age when you lost your virginity:
18 years, 9 months
Number of sexual partners you've had:
3


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