I have been through a divorce and abuse myself (and I was just as surprised as you to learn I had been abused after the fact). Feel free to PM me if you need to vent.
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"My personal tragedy will not interfere with my ability to do good hair." - Steel Magnolias
Your neurodiverse (Aspie) score: 159 of 200
Your neurotypical (non-autistic) score: 75 of 200
You are very likely neurodiverse (Aspie)