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18 Mar 2013, 1:38 pm

Fordjd wrote:
But there is one thing you can answer for me uwmonkdm.
How would you define Asperger's syndrome?
My current definition is obviously very offensive to you.
I am just very curious on how you could word it to be accurate yet pleasing for someone with Aspergers to hear.
Feel free to just cut and paste a small definition that you like.


Female Traits of Asperger's Syndome
(It's a link, click... stupid thing doesn't go blue for hyperlink)

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=At4Vmo13vJE[/youtube]
[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IFxWdpuyY6o[/youtube]

etc etc.. there's information everywhere.
I didn't actually watch these videos, but I assume they're decent places to start.



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18 Mar 2013, 1:51 pm

Communicate with her in a straightforward, honest manner. Don't play head games or expect her to take vague hints. If she's sexually attracted to you and wants it, it's not "taking advantage" to do it. We aren't mindless little children.



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18 Mar 2013, 1:58 pm

Fordjd wrote:
Wow i had no idea i was being so offensive? And I'm pretty sure the only person being a prick here is Uwmonkdm. The point of my post was to express that I was ignorant on the subject of Aspergers and that I'm interested in learning more if I'm going to date this girl... That's the bottom line of intent here. Thanks everyone else for having my back. Haha but you guys didn't really answer any of my questions at all, you just succeeded in calling me dumb and rude in a variety of different ways.


I changed my mind. I see why Uwmonkdm would be upset. I think it's good that you are putting in effort but you are being kind of a jerk about it. It sounds like this girl likes you and she is not handicapped. She is fully capable of making her own decisions. My recomendation is to now worry too much about it and if you really have questions you should ask her.



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18 Mar 2013, 2:18 pm

mercifullyfree wrote:
Communicate with her in a straightforward, honest manner. Don't play head games or expect her to take vague hints. If she's sexually attracted to you and wants it, it's not "taking advantage" to do it. We aren't mindless little children.


Speak for yourself :lol: :P