Ratae wrote:
So if you're an ugly woman, all you need to do is wait for a guy who is turned on by women who look like you. But men don't have that option. Men need to be the perfect Channing Tatum, 6'2, chiseled abs, cute face, good jaw, masculine, and if they don't have that, they will die alone and unloved. You never hear women lust over a short, emasculate, weedy, spectacled Asian male. There is only one type of guy women lust for: it is the men that are tall, handsome and masculine.
That's ridiculous. I am not attracted to abs, jaws, or any overly-masculine features--and I am a stereotypically attractive woman, not ugly at all (at least according to most). I like my men skinny, lanky even. And I don't care much about height, as long as they're at least 5'2"... I love men with glasses, and even men with more feminine features. My husband is all of those things, as are all the men I've dated.
My guess is that you either have unrealistic standards for women, as in any woman you date must look like a "super model," or you just seek out/are attracted to the wrong kind of woman--the shallow kind with no appreciation for diverse types of beauty (a large amount of men and women fall into this category, I'll admit). Or, perhaps women are not turned off by your appearance, but more so by your vast generalizations of who they are and what they're into...