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05 Apr 2013, 7:45 am

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Hey Lilya, how do you get that quote under your name like that?


You can write yourself a signature in "my account".

What you are efficiently saying now is that he should "simply" pick a "perfect" girl from around the corner and all would be solved. This forum would have far less action if perfect partners were that easy to find or be recognized. There are obviously feelings and chemistry between these two people; relationships are always work (something you have to learn Wolf) and it's better to know for sure than walk past too fast and throw potential happiness away. The grass isn't always greener on the other side.


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05 Apr 2013, 7:53 am

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Hey Lilya, how do you get that quote under your name like that?


You can write yourself a signature in "my account".

What you are efficiently saying now is that he should "simply" pick a "perfect" girl from around the corner and all would be solved. This forum would have far less action if perfect partners were that easy to find or be recognized. There are obviously feelings and chemistry between these two people; relationships are always work (something you have to learn Wolf) and it's better to know for sure than walk past too fast and throw potential happiness away. The grass isn't always greener on the other side.


I tried but it says you have to type it with html coding, how did you get it to appear below your post like that?

I realize there's a lot of commitment and devotion involved in a relationship, however a relationship is mutual so both people must put in the same amount of emotional effort to make it work and both parties must have selfless love for each other.



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05 Apr 2013, 7:59 am

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I tried but it says you have to type it with html coding, how did you get it to appear below your post like that?


Click edit profile, and fill in the Signature (optional) box. You can type your phrase in a "normal" manner. It probably is unwise for me to advice you with this, and it's not part of the topic either.


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05 Apr 2013, 8:03 am

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I tried but it says you have to type it with html coding, how did you get it to appear below your post like that?


Click edit profile, and fill in the Signature (optional) box. You can type your phrase in a "normal" manner. It probably is unwise for me to advice you with this, and it's not part of the topic either.


Thanks, I did it, let's get back on topic.

Well are you saying he should tell her he sits by the phone waiting for her to call so he can desperately attempt to get a date with her? Well just being busy in general will help him to move on.



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05 Apr 2013, 8:58 am

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I tried but it says you have to type it with html coding, how did you get it to appear below your post like that?


Click edit profile, and fill in the Signature (optional) box. You can type your phrase in a "normal" manner. It probably is unwise for me to advice you with this, and it's not part of the topic either.


Thanks, I did it, let's get back on topic.

Well are you saying he should tell her he sits by the phone waiting for her to call so he can desperately attempt to get a date with her? Well just being busy in general will help him to move on.


Don't try. "Be patient, communicate and see what happens" is far from the equivalent of acting needy.


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05 Apr 2013, 11:02 am

Lilya wrote:
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I tried but it says you have to type it with html coding, how did you get it to appear below your post like that?


Click edit profile, and fill in the Signature (optional) box. You can type your phrase in a "normal" manner. It probably is unwise for me to advice you with this, and it's not part of the topic either.


Thanks, I did it, let's get back on topic.

Well are you saying he should tell her he sits by the phone waiting for her to call so he can desperately attempt to get a date with her? Well just being busy in general will help him to move on.


Don't try. "Be patient, communicate and see what happens" is far from the equivalent of acting needy.


But has she given any indication that he should be patient and she may date him at a later point if he jumps through her hoops? you are the only one speaking about patience and I don't know where you are quoting that from as no one said it.



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05 Apr 2013, 11:07 am

Wolfheart wrote:
Lilya wrote:
Wolfheart wrote:
Lilya wrote:
Wolfheart wrote:
I tried but it says you have to type it with html coding, how did you get it to appear below your post like that?


Click edit profile, and fill in the Signature (optional) box. You can type your phrase in a "normal" manner. It probably is unwise for me to advice you with this, and it's not part of the topic either.


Thanks, I did it, let's get back on topic.

Well are you saying he should tell her he sits by the phone waiting for her to call so he can desperately attempt to get a date with her? Well just being busy in general will help him to move on.


Don't try. "Be patient, communicate and see what happens" is far from the equivalent of acting needy.


But has she given any indication that he should be patient and she may date him at a later point if he jumps through her hoops? you are the only one speaking about patience and I don't know where you are quoting that from as no one said it.

We've not heard what she's actually said. Only that she's busy.



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05 Apr 2013, 11:16 am

Wolfheart wrote:
Lilya wrote:
Wolfheart wrote:
Lilya wrote:
Wolfheart wrote:
I tried but it says you have to type it with html coding, how did you get it to appear below your post like that?


Click edit profile, and fill in the Signature (optional) box. You can type your phrase in a "normal" manner. It probably is unwise for me to advice you with this, and it's not part of the topic either.


Thanks, I did it, let's get back on topic.

Well are you saying he should tell her he sits by the phone waiting for her to call so he can desperately attempt to get a date with her? Well just being busy in general will help him to move on.


Don't try. "Be patient, communicate and see what happens" is far from the equivalent of acting needy.


But has she given any indication that he should be patient and she may date him at a later point if he jumps through her hoops? you are the only one speaking about patience and I don't know where you are quoting that from as no one said it.


Let me see... She has said that she's busy and that things may change in the future.

Literacy is a useful ability in life. Besides, why are you talking in such demeaning manner of this woman you know nothing of and encourage manner of thinking that women who are not serving your specific needs are there simply to abuse you and have to be abused in return?


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05 Apr 2013, 11:27 am

Lilya wrote:
Wolfheart wrote:
Lilya wrote:
Wolfheart wrote:
Lilya wrote:
Wolfheart wrote:
I tried but it says you have to type it with html coding, how did you get it to appear below your post like that?


Click edit profile, and fill in the Signature (optional) box. You can type your phrase in a "normal" manner. It probably is unwise for me to advice you with this, and it's not part of the topic either.


Thanks, I did it, let's get back on topic.

Well are you saying he should tell her he sits by the phone waiting for her to call so he can desperately attempt to get a date with her? Well just being busy in general will help him to move on.


Don't try. "Be patient, communicate and see what happens" is far from the equivalent of acting needy.


But has she given any indication that he should be patient and she may date him at a later point if he jumps through her hoops? you are the only one speaking about patience and I don't know where you are quoting that from as no one said it.


Let me see... She has said that she's busy and that things may change in the future.

Literacy is a useful ability in life. Besides, why are you talking in such demeaning manner of this woman you know nothing of and encourage manner of thinking that women who are not serving your specific needs are there simply to abuse you and have to be abused in return?


Why do you assume the best in people? Naivety like that can lead to hurt and I have learned to be pre-cautious over time, it's a defence mechanism.



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05 Apr 2013, 11:32 am

If you want to run a respectable business and get the best prices, you need to realize and take precautions that every investment might not be worth investing in if it doesn't show long term net profit.



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05 Apr 2013, 11:37 am

Wolfheart wrote:
Lilya wrote:
Wolfheart wrote:
Lilya wrote:
Wolfheart wrote:
Lilya wrote:
Wolfheart wrote:
I tried but it says you have to type it with html coding, how did you get it to appear below your post like that?


Click edit profile, and fill in the Signature (optional) box. You can type your phrase in a "normal" manner. It probably is unwise for me to advice you with this, and it's not part of the topic either.


Thanks, I did it, let's get back on topic.

Well are you saying he should tell her he sits by the phone waiting for her to call so he can desperately attempt to get a date with her? Well just being busy in general will help him to move on.


Don't try. "Be patient, communicate and see what happens" is far from the equivalent of acting needy.


But has she given any indication that he should be patient and she may date him at a later point if he jumps through her hoops? you are the only one speaking about patience and I don't know where you are quoting that from as no one said it.


Let me see... She has said that she's busy and that things may change in the future.

Literacy is a useful ability in life. Besides, why are you talking in such demeaning manner of this woman you know nothing of and encourage manner of thinking that women who are not serving your specific needs are there simply to abuse you and have to be abused in return?


Why do you assume the best in people? Naivety like that can lead to hurt and I have learned to be pre-cautious over time, it's a defence mechanism.


Positive attitude contributes to better quality of life and is far from from naivety. Bitterness is nothing but harmful.

As you admit, you have developed yourself a defense mechanism. It would be service for yourself to work on your problems and past traumas.


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05 Apr 2013, 11:40 am

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If you want to run a respectable business and get the best prices, you need to realize and take precautions that every investment might not be worth investing in if it doesn't show long term net profit.

This isn't the work forum though.



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05 Apr 2013, 12:06 pm

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If you want to run a respectable business and get the best prices, you need to realize and take precautions that every investment might not be worth investing in if it doesn't show long term net profit.

This isn't the work forum though.


MXH has a point.

Wolf, are you seriously comparing women to investments? That is both disrespectful and unwise.

Don't forget that finance/investments is my business field. There are few things I could say to you about your beliefs in running a business.


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05 Apr 2013, 1:33 pm

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If you want to run a respectable business and get the best prices, you need to realize and take precautions that every investment might not be worth investing in if it doesn't show long term net profit.

This isn't the work forum though.


MXH has a point.

Wolf, are you seriously comparing women to investments? That is both disrespectful and unwise.

Don't forget that finance/investments is my business field. There are few things I could say to you about your beliefs in running a business.


You might be a business woman but soldiers respect officers who are on the frontline with them in the same way that employees respect contractors who aren't afraid to get hands on and show they are more capable than just contracting work.

Not necessarily women, I'm saying investing in a relationship is like investing in a business, both the client and contractor have to trust each other and both have to make a willing effort to cooperate if they wish to succeed. They must have a shared vision, a mutual interest to want to complete the project, if neither has communication or a mutual agreement, it will cause problems.

I'll compare building, why would you build a foundation on peat when you can build it on gravel? Why would you build a foundation on an piece of land that might be vulnerable to subsidation or landslip? you wouldn't lay a concrete strip foundation near growing trees so why would you chase after someone who isn't willing to have a relationship when you can lay a strong foundation with someone who is prepared to have a relationship?



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05 Apr 2013, 1:44 pm

Sounds like Wolf isn't a very ethical businessman........



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05 Apr 2013, 1:49 pm

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Sounds like Wolf isn't a very ethical businessman........


That's what happens when you put personal gain above all. That doesn't work for relationships.