A new horizon and a new girl on the scene

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11 Apr 2013, 7:12 am

The other girl I was setting has called the new girl a blonde Barbie who complements me and agrees with everything I say.

It is a complicated situation.

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11 Apr 2013, 7:20 am

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do you love her? what do you love about her?

She's a great girl, fun, bubbly, kind and very affectionate, she likes huskies.

you didn't answer my first question. do you love her? you said she loves you but do you love her?

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11 Apr 2013, 7:35 am

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11 Apr 2013, 9:13 am

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The other girl I was setting has called the new girl a blonde Barbie who complements me and agrees with everything I say.

It is a complicated situation.

So you again showed private Convo to another girl?

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11 Apr 2013, 9:16 am

Wolfheart wrote:

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I can't undo the past but I can focus on becoming a better guy and have positive wishes or goals for the future.

Saying "oh well, it's in the past" isn't going to help you unless you're truly willing to aknowledge and learn from your mistakes. I could be wrong but I've yet to see you express genuine remorse about the stuff you've done. You've merely deflected your behavior with crap about positive wishes and goals.........

I know where you're coming from because I used to rely on the exact same defense mechanism. Still do on occasion but I usually relent fairly quickly now.

I have accepted and learned from my mistakes to go to be a better person, learn from trial and error but my positive goals are my own, I have had them for years. I won't simply stop working out or let my finances slide into a state of collapse with no ambition for the future, I am not going to sit in a monastery to reflect on it. It is in the past now and what has happened has happened, I can only go forward because there is no going backwards.

There's a crazy amount of deflection here. Nobody has said anything about giving up on your ambitions.........I'd continue but there is little point in arguing with a wall. :roll:

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11 Apr 2013, 9:20 am

MXH wrote:

Wolfheart wrote:

The other girl I was setting has called the new girl a blonde Barbie who complements me and agrees with everything I say.

It is a complicated situation.

So you again showed private Convo to another girl?

No, I'm talking about the previous girl, the one from the other thread, she is already aware about the one I am seeing.

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11 Apr 2013, 9:53 am

I asked some practical questions which you appear to have overlooked

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11 Apr 2013, 10:18 am

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I asked some practical questions which you appear to have overlooked

He doesn't like directly answering questions.

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11 Apr 2013, 10:20 am

Geekonychus wrote:

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I asked some practical questions which you appear to have overlooked

He doesn't like directly answering questions.

I can't offer advice then

I would warn that sooner or later Wolfheart is going to meet his match and that it is not a good idea to discuss money issues
with anyone until you know them well and can trust them

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11 Apr 2013, 4:52 pm

nessa238 wrote:

Geekonychus wrote:

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I asked some practical questions which you appear to have overlooked

He doesn't like directly answering questions.

I didn't overlook them, read my responses again, I don't know why you are implying about meeting my match but I'm genuinely a good guy who is regarded as lovely by some but no one is perfect. The only difference between me and the perfect person is that the perfect person had to hide their faults to pretend they are good, they have to point the finger to believe it as well.

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11 Apr 2013, 5:55 pm

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I thought she was living in Australia

So she's in the UK like you?

How old is she?

so you haven't met in person yet but she wants sex with you badly
and you're basing long-term life life plans on this person?

Who brought up the idea of going to live and work in Australia?

Please keep communicating about what's happening on WP as
I've got a bad feeling about this girl!

You've been discussing money with her without even meeting - very bad sign

I like this post.

Wolfheart, be careful. Don't rush into things before you've taken the time to really get to know someone.

Maybe arrange a couple of visits first so you can see how you get on in person before you start planning your entire future together?

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11 Apr 2013, 5:58 pm

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I'm genuinely a good guy who is regarded as lovely by some but no one is perfect.

A good guy doesn't constantly treat women like disposable tissues. A good guy admits his mistakes instead of brushing them off as, "no one is perfect" and DOES NOT REPEAT THOSE MISTAKES.

Rushing off to another place for the possible financial benefits of hooking up with another woman is both risky AND wrong on so many levels...

...but since you haven't listened to anyone's voice of reason in the last year, I wish luck to the women who cross your predatorial path.

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11 Apr 2013, 6:37 pm

Being voted as a nice guy by people you tricked into thinking you were nice doesn't count!

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12 Apr 2013, 10:50 am

Wolfheart wrote:

nessa238 wrote:

Geekonychus wrote:

nessa238 wrote:

I asked some practical questions which you appear to have overlooked

He doesn't like directly answering questions.

More deflection. You have once again avoided directly answering questions by spouting empty and meaningless lines that are unrelated to the topic at hand. It's like you're having a completely different conversation from everyone else. Why'd you even make this thread to begin with if you're going to ignore everyone's responses?

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12 Apr 2013, 11:06 am

Wolfheart wrote:

Just took a fan photo for her.

goodness gracious you are a hairy person. do you ever get infested with fleas? if you do, then your very small fingers (that i presume to be yours in the photo) would be advantageous in that situation. (among other "situations" that are common to steroid users).

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12 Apr 2013, 11:19 am

Was it Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher who started this trend for sending photos of yourself holding soppy messages?

Look what happened to them is all I'll say on the matter....

The more sentimental gush there is, the less genuineness - that's my rule of thumb

"Sentimentality is a superstructure covering brutality" as Carl Jung said

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