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appletheclown
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29 Apr 2013, 10:50 pm

What he means is he doesn't like to see you get soo upset in arguments. He wants you to be able to have a heated disscusion, on the case it is just a debate, without crying. He probably doesn't want to hurt you because he gets into these arguments often. If I may ask, how would it be bad if he hates it when you get emotional/cry?


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29 Apr 2013, 11:07 pm

appletheclown wrote:
What he means is he doesn't like to see you get soo upset in arguments. He wants you to be able to have a heated disscusion, on the case it is just a debate, without crying. He probably doesn't want to hurt you because he gets into these arguments often. If I may ask, how would it be bad if he hates it when you get emotional/cry? I hate it when women and children cry, for I did not do my job to prevent their sorrow.


i'm actually getting a lot better remaining calm and getting my point across during arguments...and when we do an AAR (after action review) he mentions it. i don't think it's "bad", it's just not what i'm used to. =]

btw, he met some of my family members recently, including a toddler who cried, and he wasn't too thrilled with her. }=/



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29 Apr 2013, 11:48 pm

corkyviolet wrote:
appletheclown wrote:
What he means is he doesn't like to see you get soo upset in arguments. He wants you to be able to have a heated disscusion, on the case it is just a debate, without crying. He probably doesn't want to hurt you because he gets into these arguments often. If I may ask, how would it be bad if he hates it when you get emotional/cry? I hate it when women and children cry, for I did not do my job to prevent their sorrow.


i'm actually getting a lot better remaining calm and getting my point across during arguments...and when we do an AAR (after action review) he mentions it. i don't think it's "bad", it's just not what i'm used to. =]

btw, he met some of my family members recently, including a toddler who cried, and he wasn't too thrilled with her. }=/


Oh I was thinking he was just one of those get mad because you're sad or hurt guys like my step dad. Well I hope he gets used to it, good luck, and many blessings.


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