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01 May 2013, 1:25 pm

I pretty much stopped thinking about how I come over to other people because in the end of the day it only makes you frustrated because you can't handle the blunt truth and you can better use the that time you waste with worrying by doing something that benefits nothing but yourself.

Society is not worth your pain.

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01 May 2013, 1:32 pm

Well, you don't look like an Abercrombie model or anything. I've seen people worse looking, though. f**k man, today I saw this really huge dude, who looked like, I dunno, fat. But fatter in a superheavyweight weightlifter/strongman sorta way (sorta.) He was hitting on this hot girl driving a Mercedes, and she seemed to not hate the hell out of him.

So I guess the blah blah blah confidence blah blah thing again.

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01 May 2013, 1:37 pm

^That's what it is. Not the confidence thing, but the fact that he's big.

Bigger equates to more power in people's eyes.

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01 May 2013, 1:38 pm

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This discussion serves to let everyone know that your confidence is flat lining. You got to give it a boost. Teach yourself a talent; it will give you a bit of satisfaction and girls like talented men.

Pfft, no. It just makes you hate yourself even more knowing you don't measure up to people who've been doing it since they were 5 years.

See, this 8 year old boy clean and jerks more than me.
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01 May 2013, 1:41 pm

And you know, Giftorcurse? Thank the heavens you're not me. I've been slapped, kicked in the nuts, humiliated, and all sorts of things at the hands of ladies just for saying "hi" or even just minding my own business.

If you have it THAT bad, then I'm sorry, man, and I'll take that comment back.

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01 May 2013, 1:57 pm

1000Knives wrote:

Well, you don't look like an Abercrombie model or anything. I've seen people worse looking, though. f**k man, today I saw this really huge dude, who looked like, I dunno, fat. But fatter in a superheavyweight weightlifter/strongman sorta way (sorta.) He was hitting on this hot girl driving a Mercedes, and she seemed to not hate the hell out of him.

So I guess the blah blah blah confidence blah blah thing again.

This is probably why she liked him.

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01 May 2013, 1:58 pm

DialAForAwesome wrote:

appletheclown wrote:

DialAForAwesome wrote:

PsychoSarah wrote:

Giftorcurse wrote:

I've had enough bad luck to convince me that I'm not exactly dating material.

Do not say such things in front of women! We can smell the fear, and the fear is unattractive.

Being able to smell or sense fear is a myth.....

....at least for humans.

You see or sense fear in how a person behaves. I am pretty sure I can tell when someone is hurt or afraid. I can tell when my mom is sad or crying or hurt when no one else can in the house. She lies about this to keep us from being worried, on top of that she feels like a burden because of her surgery. She hides it, and has only admitted it to ME once or twice.

There are plenty of people who like like Giftorcurse do, who don't show it, and nobody knows how they feel. They have to outright be told, which is something you just admitted to.

She admitted that she lied when I caught her holding her feelings back, not that I was right. I know how my mom feels. Most likely giftorcurse feels like his asperger's is only a burden to him, and thinks of dating the same. I think he just feels like women don't have the time for him and his problems, when there are more women in the world than there are men. He needs to realize his analytical brain has abilities no NT can hope to acquire, and needs to put these to his advantage both in a job sense, and to dating (women in general). The women in your life, giftorcurse, are not the only ones in the entire world. If you need female attention that badly, I am sure a lot of ladies will be happy to encourage you on this thread and others. Maybe you could talk about adult stuff with the ladies in the adult forum, I'm sure they are curious as to what people like you enjoy, seeing as you don't get along with them that much yet.

One encouraging bit of info, if you lived long enough, or were slow aging, you have enough man seed in you to get everyone pregnant.
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01 May 2013, 1:59 pm

Uprising wrote:

1000Knives wrote:

This is probably why she liked him.

So there you go, OP. Become a strongman competitor.

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01 May 2013, 2:02 pm

1000Knives wrote:

Uprising wrote:

1000Knives wrote:

This is probably why she liked him.

So there you go, OP. Become a strongman competitor.

Or follow my advice: not give a s**t about it and not making other people control your life.

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01 May 2013, 2:07 pm

PsychoSarah wrote:

Do not say such things in front of women! We can smell the fear, and the fear is unattractive.

As much as I'm disgusted by this type of human behaviour, I appreciate the frank honesty... that's rare.

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01 May 2013, 2:11 pm

BlueMax wrote:

PsychoSarah wrote:

Do not say such things in front of women! We can smell the fear, and the fear is unattractive.

As much as I'm disgusted by this type of human behaviour, I appreciate the frank honesty... that's rare.

I notice people seem to handle me better when I'm in my "good one", even if it's just a feeling and not an actual fact.

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01 May 2013, 2:16 pm

Giftorcurse wrote:

Yeah, but all the girls in my life have treated me badly.

Well tat could be for multiple reasons... not necessarily your looks.

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01 May 2013, 2:27 pm

Cafeaulait wrote:

Giftorcurse wrote:

Yeah, but all the girls in my life have treated me badly.

Well tat could be for multiple reasons... not necessarily your looks.

People tend to walk all over people when they act like welcome mats.

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01 May 2013, 2:29 pm

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Giftorcurse wrote:

Yeah, but all the girls in my life have treated me badly.

Well tat could be for multiple reasons... not necessarily your looks.

They could also be just very arrogant girls who get off on making people feel like s**t.

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01 May 2013, 2:32 pm

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They could also be just very arrogant girls who get off on making people feel like sh**.

There seems to be a LOT of that in the world... men & women alike - rotten to their very cores.

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01 May 2013, 2:37 pm

BlueMax wrote:

Uprising wrote:

They could also be just very arrogant girls who get off on making people feel like sh**.

There seems to be a LOT of that in the world... men & women alike - rotten to their very cores.

Having a lot of friends in this day and age would actually have a lot of downsides for those who aren't plain asses themselves because of that.

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