Awkward Moment When You Notice the Quirky Girl is Insane

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19 May 2013, 8:21 pm

What's with all the bat sh*t crazy women anyway? Online dating seems to have more than its fair share for some reason. I guess they figure that the guy won't find out until it's too late, or that they can't get a date anywhere else. I've had more than a few during my time with online dating, and I'm sure most guys who have tried looking online have too. Eventually I quit looking since every woman I met seemed to be out of her mind, and/or looking for a guy from a romance novel. But then I've heard that women have to deal with all the creepy guys online, and they have more to lose since a guy could overpower/rape/kill them with ease if he so wanted, so eventually the sane ones give up looking and all we're left with is insane women and creepy guys.



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19 May 2013, 9:36 pm

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What's with all the bat sh*t crazy women anyway? Online dating seems to have more than its fair share for some reason. I guess they figure that the guy won't find out until it's too late, or that they can't get a date anywhere else. I've had more than a few during my time with online dating, and I'm sure most guys who have tried looking online have too. Eventually I quit looking since every woman I met seemed to be out of her mind, and/or looking for a guy from a romance novel. But then I've heard that women have to deal with all the creepy guys online, and they have more to lose since a guy could overpower/rape/kill them with ease if he so wanted, so eventually the sane ones give up looking and all we're left with is insane women and creepy guys.


I'd take a "crazy girl" with one of the Cluster B' personality disorders as long as it was mild. So basically Antisocial, Narcissistic, Histrionic, or Borderline (very very mild). I share similar ways of thinking with BPD, NPD, and ASPD, so sometimes, I think even if you're not *that* crazy yourself, a crazy woman can be a good thing as long as the craziness is mild and manageable. I think a mild NPD or ASPD girl would be more suitable for me than a normal/NT girl; BPD might be a bad idea cuz I have it too, but I could sure use the empathy and people-reading ability since I'm a super complicated person.

After all, Asperger's is a form of crazy. It's basically a personality disorder with other impairments and sensory issues tacked on.

I think the girl in the video is supposed to have something like HPD and maybe something else. Not for me, but maybe for some.



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20 May 2013, 2:18 pm

Ha, I wasn't at all suprised by what she was listening to :D I mean, it's good to have a passion for something ; special interests are the fun part of being on the spectrum. So actually I'd be happy to date someone who could teach me anything "exotic" [sounds better than "weird" ] . The "f**king" part at the end would scare me off though because she seemed so clingy. The type of person who'd want to move in together after a week.



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20 May 2013, 2:26 pm

OH f**k!! !! !!

Like a typical okcupid girl!! !



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20 May 2013, 2:30 pm

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22 May 2013, 2:18 pm

It's just her very last questions that's odd. In a real life situation, you wouldn't know why she listens to that stuff. She must have some reasons.
As if nobody here has or had a weird (or what some might consider repellent) special interest ever. So that's not the point that would struck me as weird anyway.
I wouldn't say "so what?" if that other person was indeed insane but I'm not that sane, either, so I'd rather evaluate someone on their very individual way of being, their types of issues,...etc. I wouldn't mind someone insane (that would be hypocritical anyway) but it all comes down to the individual case.


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22 May 2013, 2:23 pm

That girl in the video is extremely cute! :P


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22 May 2013, 2:33 pm

My dream girl. :heart:

(not being sarcastic.)

Also, if I was there I would be asking if she had considered CIA MKULTRA involvement as being a possibility in the Jonestown massacre and asked if the killing of the Congressman was a CIA hit. And then we'd talk about Jonestown for like 20-30 minutes.



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22 May 2013, 3:19 pm

Mayel wrote:
It's just her very last questions that's odd. In a real life situation, you wouldn't know why she listens to that stuff. She must have some reasons.
As if nobody here has or had a weird (or what some might consider repellent) special interest ever. So that's not the point that would struck me as weird anyway.
I wouldn't say "so what?" if that other person was indeed insane but I'm not that sane, either, so I'd rather evaluate someone on their very individual way of being, their types of issues,...etc. I wouldn't mind someone insane (that would be hypocritical anyway) but it all comes down to the individual case.


Sometimes, for sufferers of abuse or PTSD, listening to violent music is a good way to stay focused and calm. I love listening to recordings of air raid sirens and bombing attacks. Or watching videos of explosions. I think what she was doing was more gruesome because it involved the actual sounds of human suffering, which I would not like, but I can still relate a little bit. And music is much preferable. At least Disturbed lyrics have music to them.



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22 May 2013, 3:33 pm

DialAForAwesome wrote:
That girl in the video is extremely cute! :P


Yeah, a girl listening to voices of mass suicide sounds really cute!

I can't wait to share the bed with her!! yooho!
/sarcasm.

ARE YOU NUTS?



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22 May 2013, 3:35 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
DialAForAwesome wrote:
That girl in the video is extremely cute! :P


Yeah, a girl listening to voices of mass suicide sounds really cute!

I can't wait to share the bed with her!! yooho!
/sarcasm.

ARE YOU NUTS?

All I said was that she's cute.

whether I'd date her or not is a different story. There are plenty of girls I find cute but would never date.


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22 May 2013, 3:36 pm

Tyri0n wrote:

Sometimes, for sufferers of abuse or PTSD, listening to violent music is a good way to stay focused and calm. I love listening to recordings of air raid sirens and bombing attacks. Or watching videos of explosions. I think what she was doing was more gruesome because it involved the actual sounds of human suffering, which I would not like, but I can still relate a little bit. And music is much preferable. At least Disturbed lyrics have music to them.


Disturbed is even better live. That girl reminds me of an old friend of mine. 8O



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22 May 2013, 3:55 pm

Yikes. At least this is fictional...

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22 May 2013, 4:09 pm

As long as she loves children and other living things enough, i'd date a lady who is a little chatter bat. Hey, we come here for advice on being a little batty.

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22 May 2013, 4:14 pm

Would you date this one too?

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