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25 May 2013, 4:09 pm

I think she's into you, OP, or at least undecided. I'm going with the freak out theory. Try again and see.

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25 May 2013, 6:04 pm

Sheerboredom wrote:

I don't give up until I get a straight answer. (This applies toward everything)

Sometimes people just won’t give you a straight answer, and they’ll get mad at you if you insist.

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25 May 2013, 7:11 pm

Spiderpig wrote:

Sheerboredom wrote:

I don't give up until I get a straight answer. (This applies toward everything)

Sometimes people just won’t give you a straight answer, and they’ll get mad at you if you insist.

I know this but I don't usually associate myself with these people.

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25 May 2013, 9:29 pm

So it's a girl you're not even friends with and you were expecting a yes or no on the spot?

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25 May 2013, 9:44 pm

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So it's a girl you're not even friends with and you were expecting a yes or no on the spot?

Yep, it made more sense in my sex addled head though.

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25 May 2013, 10:50 pm

Did you even have a conversation with her before you asked her? You can't just walk up to female strangers and flatly ask them out y'know.

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26 May 2013, 4:13 am

blue_bean wrote:

Did you even have a conversation with her before you asked her? You can't just walk up to female strangers and flatly ask them out y'know.

Maybe she mistyped "you" at the end?

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26 May 2013, 8:34 am

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Did you even have a conversation with her before you asked her? You can't just walk up to female strangers and flatly ask them out y'know.

Well she isn't a complete stranger, she knows who I am we share several classes and there was this time I also called her a certain five letter word in seventh grade, not to mention we used to both be on the school track team, I've had to work with her in several group projects this year, and she knows my brother.

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26 May 2013, 12:04 pm

Sheerboredom wrote:

blue_bean wrote:

Did you even have a conversation with her before you asked her? You can't just walk up to female strangers and flatly ask them out y'know.

Give it a try once again.
With something like "so about the movie...".

No, don't move on now.

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26 May 2013, 12:21 pm

It's not all about getting a "yes" or "no" answer straight away - that ultimatum can scare people off. I would back off for a week or so, remaining friendly but slightly distant, and then for a few days be subtley playful towards her, with no expectations, and still being slightly distant inbetween. After those few days, if she's definitely friendly back, or seems curious, then keep being friendly and then pulling back slightly. Then suggest meeting up again.

I think you did the right thing by saying, "sometime" because that's less intimidating for her to answer than asking for a specific date.

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26 May 2013, 2:59 pm

smudge wrote:

So I shouldn't ask her Tuesday?

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26 May 2013, 3:03 pm

Well, few days have already passed...

But don't wait too long too.

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