How do i get lucky?

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True. Most people have standards, but if his are unrealistic standards he's not going to get anywhere. He didn't mention any qualities he brought to the table, other than autistic and feeling unattractive.

Because the thread is not about qualities.

Nor he mentioned what qualities he wanted in a girl in order to assume he's being unrealistic.

Just a suggestion for the OP... Providing this background information can lead to a more accurate description of the problem that he's seeking advice for. Now let the guy speak for himself, FOB.

Pay.

It's not that bad. Be a humanitarian, scrub yourself well. YOU MUST HAVE A CONDOM!! Go to a house - not a girl on the street. They are called Gentleman's Clubs. It's legal in Vegas. Another important thing is to wash up really well afterwards. 1-2-3 then you're done. The call-girls are very attractive in Las Vegas Casinos.

There are unattractive women who will have sex with any man who will ask??? In what movie is that playing? If a guy is unnattractive, then why doesn't he go and have a real relationship with someone that is his physical equal. If it's only sex that you want, then pay. ANY woman who is willing to just have sex with any guy thinks that sex will rope him in. Why hurt a desparate, very lonely person, when you can just pay, get off, and go home!

yes, but escorts are not cheap.

If you are in it for the long term taking it slow side of relationships with women, where do you go on WP for that? It seems like these are all tips on how to get laid, not falling in love....

thank you oneiros you have given the best advice so far much better than what billiscool has said

If you are really that afraid of dying as a virgin escorts and hookers are not that picky.

yeah, but mine actual has a 100% gurantee. if you have the money, find an escort, boom you get laid.

If you pay for an escort there could be psychological consequences. You could encourage a pattern of objectifying women, instead of trying to break that mold and actually getting to know them. You could associate sex with the exchange of resources instead of a genuine feeling of intimacy. The short term benefit of knowing what sex feels like might not outweigh the possible development of long term problems.

if you can't get sex the ''traditional way'' by asking women out, then the next thing to do for men is go for an escort.
problem solve.

But it doesn't solve the problem of improving your ability to have sex with non-escorts, and it may actually decrease your chances in the future, or make you dependent on escorts for sex.

Ok, have sex with the escort for the first time, and then go after women the traditional way.
but if a guy can't get a woman the traditional way, then escort really is his only option
for sex.

oh, a guy could get lucky and have some woman ask him out,and ask him to have sex.
Like what happen to me.
but unless the guy is very attractive,rich, famous, or just plain lucky like me.
it very long shot that a woman would ask him for sex.

Please don't say things like what? I was trying to give you some advice.

Basically, if you want to be attractive to someone then you need to figure out why you are not attractive to them already and change those things about yourself if you can. Either do that or find someone who you are attractive to. You can't make someone be attracted to you any other way. For an example if you are a 6 foot tall guy with brown hair and blue eyes and a medium build who likes Nascar and Game of Thrones and the girl(s) in the group that you encounter do not like 6 foot tall guys with brown hair or don't like guys with blue eyes or only like either really skinny or really buff guys or think guys who like Nascar or Game of Thrones are silly then unless you change some of those things, they are not going to find you attractive even if you do share some common interests. Of course you can't change your height or your interests but you can change other things about yourself and also not talk about your interests to them, or develop knowledge about other popular interests.

I'm not saying that those are the problems you are having, I'm simply using that as an example. Try and pinpoint what it is that you are doing "wrong" and change that.

Another option would be to make friends with a female who can get to know you and then ask her what she thinks may be the problem. One of the best people that ever helped me find out why guys weren't liking me much at all was a guy. He was one of my best friends and still is. While my girl friends helped me with makeup and hair and made me force myself to be more outgoing and talk to guys, my guy friend was able to pinpoint specific things that I was doing or saying or things about my appearance that guys just didn't like, so I was able to change those things. Having a "ringer" like that is always good. I have played the same role for guy friends myself.