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07 Jun 2013, 3:33 pm

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It's a double standard, and this one guy's got the short end of the stick. There's lots of double standards in life, some men win, some women win.

Women can have "types" with near impunity, whereas a guy who says he doesn't find fat women attractive is shallow.

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A man can have sex with 5 women in a night and be a "Big Pimpin" hero, whereas a woman who sleeps with 5 guys in a night is a dirty hoebag.

The best thing I've found is to say that while you are sure the girl is attractive, she is just not your type.


A woman doesn't have to do anything to f-ck five different guys in one night—a man has to work for it.


Really, if sex is all that is wanted, men can get that just as easily from what I've been told... as long as they're up for sleeping with five guys in one night as well.

Not very appealing, if you ask me. But if that's your game, I guess, have at it!


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07 Jun 2013, 3:37 pm

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I don't understand the ''league'' thing


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yes, I do have a certain amount of choice


That is the league thing.


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07 Jun 2013, 3:39 pm

Spiderpig wrote:
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I don't understand the ''league'' thing


YourMajesty wrote:
yes, I do have a certain amount of choice


That is the league thing.

Hmm. Ok. I mean choice in who'd be interested to date or anything.

But it's not that I think ''well, this guy has a car.... but that one's got a house and he looks so good, oh, and the other one is such a loser, never an option for me!'' <== Isn't that the league thing? That you think in such ways?

Like in...
Who's got money?
Who's popular?
Who looks good?
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07 Jun 2013, 3:40 pm

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Futhermore, obesity is mostly a choice


Supposedly, there are certain gut bacteria that can make a very major difference by influencing the intestines to extract far more of the nutrition present. If you have those bacteria, it is supposedly very, very difficult to avoid gaining weight.



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07 Jun 2013, 3:44 pm

I like the feeling of being big, strong and powerful.


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07 Jun 2013, 3:44 pm

I met a girl in 1976 who had the nickname "Bicentennial" -- in honor of the US bicentennial, she dedicated the year to having sex with exactly 200 different males. When I met her, she was well on her way to reaching that goal.

The girl who used to live in the apartment above where I lived once might have beat that without even having a goal in mind.



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07 Jun 2013, 3:47 pm

In other words, some wouldn't date a woman who could beat them up. They wouldn't date a woman that they couldn't dominate. I'm glad I look masculine.


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07 Jun 2013, 3:50 pm

meems wrote:
Kurgan wrote:
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It's a double standard, and this one guy's got the short end of the stick. There's lots of double standards in life, some men win, some women win.

Women can have "types" with near impunity, whereas a guy who says he doesn't find fat women attractive is shallow.

However

A man can have sex with 5 women in a night and be a "Big Pimpin" hero, whereas a woman who sleeps with 5 guys in a night is a dirty hoebag.

The best thing I've found is to say that while you are sure the girl is attractive, she is just not your type.


A woman doesn't have to do anything to f-ck five different guys in one night—a man has to work for it.


Really, if sex is all that is wanted, men can get that just as easily from what I've been told... as long as they're up for sleeping with five guys in one night as well.

Not very appealing, if you ask me. But if that's your game, I guess, have at it!


Sounds disgusting. I'm pretty sure he meant a woman can get to have sex with a man easier than a man can get to have sex with a woman.


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07 Jun 2013, 3:52 pm

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In other words, some wouldn't date a woman who could beat them up. They wouldn't date a woman that they couldn't dominate. I'm glad I look masculine.


WRONG, i'm an exception.


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07 Jun 2013, 4:00 pm

meems wrote:
Kurgan wrote:
thewhitrbbit wrote:
It's a double standard, and this one guy's got the short end of the stick. There's lots of double standards in life, some men win, some women win.

Women can have "types" with near impunity, whereas a guy who says he doesn't find fat women attractive is shallow.

However

A man can have sex with 5 women in a night and be a "Big Pimpin" hero, whereas a woman who sleeps with 5 guys in a night is a dirty hoebag.

The best thing I've found is to say that while you are sure the girl is attractive, she is just not your type.


A woman doesn't have to do anything to f-ck five different guys in one night—a man has to work for it.


Really, if sex is all that is wanted, men can get that just as easily from what I've been told... as long as they're up for sleeping with five guys in one night as well.

Not very appealing, if you ask me. But if that's your game, I guess, have at it!


I'm a straight man. It's probably somewhat harder for a lesbian woman to get laid just like that than it is for a straight woman, though.

In all one-night stands I've had (I haven't had many, though), the girl did in fact make the first move, but these girls were rather slu*ty girls you wouldn't want to show your parents. Usually when a girl makes the first move in a one-night stand she's ovulating, though, so morning after pills are mandatory.



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07 Jun 2013, 4:26 pm

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That is the league thing.


That 'league' thing needs to be stuffed up the anus of the elements.

We are all desirable to somebody. There are no 'leagues'; there are people.



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07 Jun 2013, 5:47 pm

After what I have been through with my life, I would not date someone who ate nothing but junk food. I am sorry but there would be arguments over what to make for dinner and what to get at the grocery store. I eat my real fruits, veggies, meat, nuts, etc every day.

I am also exercise on average 4.5-5 hrs a week, so being a total couch potato would be a turn off for me. I do enjoy relaxing and laying around a bit, but not for a long time.



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07 Jun 2013, 5:58 pm

Kurgan wrote:
meems wrote:
Kurgan wrote:
thewhitrbbit wrote:
It's a double standard, and this one guy's got the short end of the stick. There's lots of double standards in life, some men win, some women win.

Women can have "types" with near impunity, whereas a guy who says he doesn't find fat women attractive is shallow.

However

A man can have sex with 5 women in a night and be a "Big Pimpin" hero, whereas a woman who sleeps with 5 guys in a night is a dirty hoebag.

The best thing I've found is to say that while you are sure the girl is attractive, she is just not your type.


A woman doesn't have to do anything to f-ck five different guys in one night—a man has to work for it.


Really, if sex is all that is wanted, men can get that just as easily from what I've been told... as long as they're up for sleeping with five guys in one night as well.

Not very appealing, if you ask me. But if that's your game, I guess, have at it!


I'm a straight man. It's probably somewhat harder for a lesbian woman to get laid just like that than it is for a straight woman, though.

In all one-night stands I've had (I haven't had many, though), the girl did in fact make the first move, but these girls were rather slu*ty girls you wouldn't want to show your parents. Usually when a girl makes the first move in a one-night stand she's ovulating, though, so morning after pills are mandatory.


It's not hard for lesbian women to get laid, as a general rule. I've had many many one night stands with women and I wouldn't refer to them as "slu*ty" nor do I consider myself "slu*ty" that term is pretty much a BS way to shame women for owning their bodies.

I can't imagine you're a gem to show to one's parents either, so I guess you can relate to the women you slept with?


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07 Jun 2013, 6:00 pm

I'm not trying to be mean, I just think it requires a lot of self-loathing to sleep with women you look down on for doing exactly what you're doing with them.


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07 Jun 2013, 6:04 pm

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meems wrote:
Kurgan wrote:
thewhitrbbit wrote:
It's a double standard, and this one guy's got the short end of the stick. There's lots of double standards in life, some men win, some women win.

Women can have "types" with near impunity, whereas a guy who says he doesn't find fat women attractive is shallow.

However

A man can have sex with 5 women in a night and be a "Big Pimpin" hero, whereas a woman who sleeps with 5 guys in a night is a dirty hoebag.

The best thing I've found is to say that while you are sure the girl is attractive, she is just not your type.


A woman doesn't have to do anything to f-ck five different guys in one night—a man has to work for it.


Really, if sex is all that is wanted, men can get that just as easily from what I've been told... as long as they're up for sleeping with five guys in one night as well.

Not very appealing, if you ask me. But if that's your game, I guess, have at it!


Sounds disgusting. I'm pretty sure he meant a woman can get to have sex with a man easier than a man can get to have sex with a woman.


I know that's what he was saying, but I'm trying to illustrate how worthless sex with men is as an arbitrary activity to many women.


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07 Jun 2013, 6:13 pm

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It's not hard for lesbian women to get laid, as a general rule. I've had many many one night stands with women and I wouldn't refer to them as "slu*ty" nor do I consider myself "slu*ty" that term is pretty much a BS way to shame women for owning their bodies.


I guess you've never slept with any of the girls I've slept with, then. One of them patrolled every dating site known in Norway to find guys to sleep with and another would sleep with a new guy every week--despite claiming to be a devout christian who wished to wait until marriage.

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I can't imagine you're a gem to show to one's parents either, so I guess you can relate to the women you slept with?


Never claimed that I was one either, so what's your point? If I ever have kids, I'll pray to God that they won't do some of the stuff I've done, but I regret very little and I'm bluntly honest about it; thus, I smell cleaner than a lot of the "hollier than thou" hypocrites out there. Unlike most slu*ty girls, I've also had to put some effort into getting laid. I knew pretty much nothing about the girls I've had one-time encounters with (I don't even remember the name of everybody)--and thus didn't see them as slu*ty before I got to know them.

Lastly, because I'm both a full-time engineering student and also work a lot on the side and don't have time for a girlfriend, I deserved those one-night stands.