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Whom did you lose your virginity to?
An escort 35%  35%  [ 9 ]
Your girlfriend 58%  58%  [ 15 ]
An older woman 8%  8%  [ 2 ]
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20 Jun 2013, 9:42 pm

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Losing your virginity is not special nor magical. it doesn't matter who it goes to, sex isnt a big deal, NT's and their ape brains that need to procreate through instinct think it is though, so they get advertisers to exploit this fact. I dont get the what happened part? really, i get the feeling your doing what i did and billing up to be magical and heading for abject dissapointment. You put yourself inside her and it feels warm and kinda looser than your hand and you have like alot of freedom to move round, its basically like being inside a velvet glove.... you dont find any meaning you thrash around spunk and thats it... its fun its worth doing again, but its not the be all and end all and its in no way a big deal. i really dont know if you wanted that kinda detail but i figured id give it anyway.

thank you for that description, that is very educational and grist for fantasies for those who will not be able to accomplish acquiring the real experience. :wtg:



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20 Jun 2013, 10:53 pm

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Losing your virginity is not special nor magical. it doesn't matter who it goes to, sex isnt a big deal, NT's and their ape brains that need to procreate through instinct think it is though, so they get advertisers to exploit this fact.
I dont get the what happened part? really, i get the feeling your doing what i did and billing up to be magical and heading for abject dissapointment.
You put yourself inside her and it feels warm and kinda looser than your hand and you have like alot of freedom to move round, its basically like being inside a velvet glove.... you dont find any meaning you thrash around spunk and thats it...
its fun its worth doing again, but its not the be all and end all and its in no way a big deal.

i really dont know if you wanted that kinda detail but i figured id give it anyway.


I don't know about you, or any other guys here, but my first time having sex, was awesome. The greatest feeling I've have ever had.
if you only going to have sex with one person, make sure it counts.



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21 Jun 2013, 12:55 am

the sex is a thousand times better if both parties cum.



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21 Jun 2013, 3:27 am

Virgin pride. Why would I want to deal with all those messy feelings anyway?



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21 Jun 2013, 8:14 am

billiscool wrote:

I don't know about you, or any other guys here, but my first time having sex, was awesome. The greatest feeling I've have ever had.
if you only going to have sex with one person, make sure it counts.
think you are over romaticising it bill..



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21 Jun 2013, 10:53 am

DefinitelyKmart wrote:
billiscool wrote:

I don't know about you, or any other guys here, but my first time having sex, was awesome. The greatest feeling I've have ever had.
if you only going to have sex with one person, make sure it counts.
think you are over romaticising it bill..


I know how it felt. just because so many people have lousy first time sex, don't mean we all do.
everyone first time is going to be different, but it can be the greatest feeling you ever had.



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21 Jun 2013, 11:08 am

i never said it was lousy i had said that greatest feeling of life.. is totally ridiculous and is going to lead to people expecting more than what sex is.



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21 Jun 2013, 11:48 am

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i never said it was lousy i had said that greatest feeling of life.. is totally ridiculous and is going to lead to people expecting more than what sex is.


everyone is different, some people may have good sex, and other have terrible sex.
In my very brief sex life, it was great. the greatest ever. and that just me.
Like I said, every person is different, they just have to find out, how great or bad sex is.



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21 Jun 2013, 1:38 pm

I lost my virginity when I was 17 to my ex gf who was 18 at the time.


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22 Jun 2013, 3:37 pm

Still a virgin. I want to wait. I have had the chance about 50 times with 3 different girls and some i could have driven to see and lose my v card. about 4-5 of those.

I choose to wait to give this to my future wife i think. still not sure but lots of girls like virgins.
Plus there is plenty of fun things to do with your girl and still be a virgin :wink:



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22 Jun 2013, 10:20 pm

zarok wrote:
Still a virgin. I want to wait. I have had the chance about 50 times with 3 different girls and some i could have driven to see and lose my v card. about 4-5 of those.

I choose to wait to give this to my future wife i think. still not sure but lots of girls like virgins.
Plus there is plenty of fun things to do with your girl and still be a virgin :wink:


Hopefully your good looking guy or have good social skills with ladies, because you may have to wait a long time.
But if you don't mind. all power to you.



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22 Jun 2013, 11:26 pm

No I think I will die alone. And a virgin. But I am proud to say i am that strong to control myself. It is something i like holding onto. It separates me from the hordes i guess.