Board index › Coping in life › Love and Dating

what was the result for love and success

Page 2 of 2 [ 24 posts ]  Go to page Previous  1, 2

Previous topic | Next topic

billiscool
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 5 Feb 2006
Age: 43
Gender: Male
Posts: 2,989

17 Jun 2013, 5:59 pm

well, there are aspie men who do well in dating, there is no deny that.
But when it comes to having no success in dating at all, from what I've seen
is alot more male than female in the unsuccessful group.

how many aspie men have never even kissed a girl ever or let alone had sex, alot.
or ever been on a ''real'' date.



supguysfriedchicken
Snowy Owl
Snowy Owl

User avatar

Joined: 16 Aug 2011
Age: 40
Gender: Male
Posts: 165
Location: Maryland

18 Jun 2013, 4:18 am

billiscool wrote:
how many aspie men have never even kissed a girl ever or let alone had sex, alot.
or ever been on a ''real'' date.


I would fit into all of those categories.


_________________
People who trade their freedom for security will have neither.

AQ Test 43/50


Alycat
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 11 Oct 2007
Age: 39
Gender: Female
Posts: 1,690
Location: Birmingham, UK

18 Jun 2013, 5:09 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Ah I forgot to mention that female members often find this offensive (stating this obvious observation), I don't know why, while they should feel relieved lol. Screaming "That's not true!" and stuff like blue_bean is doing.
I think what I find offensive is the suggestion that life is easy for females on the spectrum.


_________________
If you don't believe in dragons it is curiously true, that the dragons you disparage choose to not believe in you.


The_Face_of_Boo
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 16 Jun 2010
Age: 44
Gender: Non-binary
Posts: 33,664
Location: Beirut, Lebanon.

18 Jun 2013, 5:13 am

Alycat wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Ah I forgot to mention that female members often find this offensive (stating this obvious observation), I don't know why, while they should feel relieved lol. Screaming "That's not true!" and stuff like blue_bean is doing.
I think what I find offensive is the suggestion that life is easy for females on the spectrum.


"Life" is a big word. But for dating/sexual life yes, it's easier for you.

I am sure you have a sexual partner like most female members, unlike many male members here.



Last edited by The_Face_of_Boo on 18 Jun 2013, 5:18 am, edited 2 times in total.

Alycat
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 11 Oct 2007
Age: 39
Gender: Female
Posts: 1,690
Location: Birmingham, UK

18 Jun 2013, 5:18 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Alycat wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Ah I forgot to mention that female members often find this offensive (stating this obvious observation), I don't know why, while they should feel relieved lol. Screaming "That's not true!" and stuff like blue_bean is doing.
I think what I find offensive is the suggestion that life is easy for females on the spectrum.


"Life" is a big word. But for dating/sexual life yes, it's easier for you.

I am sure you have a sexual partner like most female members, unlike many male members here.
It may be easier, but it's definitely not easy. And I do, but they are also on the site, so that equals it out.


_________________
If you don't believe in dragons it is curiously true, that the dragons you disparage choose to not believe in you.


The_Face_of_Boo
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 16 Jun 2010
Age: 44
Gender: Non-binary
Posts: 33,664
Location: Beirut, Lebanon.

18 Jun 2013, 5:21 am

Alycat wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Alycat wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Ah I forgot to mention that female members often find this offensive (stating this obvious observation), I don't know why, while they should feel relieved lol. Screaming "That's not true!" and stuff like blue_bean is doing.
I think what I find offensive is the suggestion that life is easy for females on the spectrum.


"Life" is a big word. But for dating/sexual life yes, it's easier for you.

I am sure you have a sexual partner like most female members, unlike many male members here.
It may be easier, but it's definitely not easy. And I do, but they are also on the site, so that equals it out.


You, in specific, Alycat, had several times expressed in the adult section how important sex is for happiness and well being in life, so just imagine the permanent sexless life of many male members here. The only female members who always had a sexless life I know about are bluerose, the girl with yellow fish avatar, and those who are asexuals.



Alycat
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 11 Oct 2007
Age: 39
Gender: Female
Posts: 1,690
Location: Birmingham, UK

18 Jun 2013, 5:23 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Alycat wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Alycat wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Ah I forgot to mention that female members often find this offensive (stating this obvious observation), I don't know why, while they should feel relieved lol. Screaming "That's not true!" and stuff like blue_bean is doing.
I think what I find offensive is the suggestion that life is easy for females on the spectrum.


"Life" is a big word. But for dating/sexual life yes, it's easier for you.

I am sure you have a sexual partner like most female members, unlike many male members here.
It may be easier, but it's definitely not easy. And I do, but they are also on the site, so that equals it out.


You, in specific, had several times expressed in the adult section how important sex is for happiness and well being in life, so just imagine the permanent sexless life of many male members here. The only female members going into sexless life I know about are bluerose, the girl with yellow fish avatar, and those who are asexuals.
For years I was sexless, and not through choice.
Don't forget as well, there are less of us females on the site. It could be that the subgroup of Aspie females who post regularly, happen to be the ones who 'get some' whereas the ones who don't also don't post about it.


_________________
If you don't believe in dragons it is curiously true, that the dragons you disparage choose to not believe in you.


The_Face_of_Boo
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 16 Jun 2010
Age: 44
Gender: Non-binary
Posts: 33,664
Location: Beirut, Lebanon.

18 Jun 2013, 5:25 am

Alycat wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Alycat wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Alycat wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Ah I forgot to mention that female members often find this offensive (stating this obvious observation), I don't know why, while they should feel relieved lol. Screaming "That's not true!" and stuff like blue_bean is doing.
I think what I find offensive is the suggestion that life is easy for females on the spectrum.


"Life" is a big word. But for dating/sexual life yes, it's easier for you.

I am sure you have a sexual partner like most female members, unlike many male members here.
It may be easier, but it's definitely not easy. And I do, but they are also on the site, so that equals it out.


You, in specific, had several times expressed in the adult section how important sex is for happiness and well being in life, so just imagine the permanent sexless life of many male members here. The only female members going into sexless life I know about are bluerose, the girl with yellow fish avatar, and those who are asexuals.
For years I was sexless, and not through choice.
Don't forget as well, there are less of us females on the site. It could be that the subgroup of Aspie females who post regularly, happen to be the ones who 'get some' whereas the ones who don't also don't post about it.


Oh, what a nice coincidence :lol: and since there are much more male members here, so you having someone from here doesn't really equal it out.

This discussion is useless tho, I am bored.