Sex before anything else

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I think Fnord's advice sounds like a really bad idea. If he treats you well and you are friends, then I don't think withholding sex from him (especially if you enjoy it too) is going to achieve anything. I think his suggestion is old-fashioned in that he thinks that the guy is supposed to court you and only receive sex after he has earned it. I think that sort of thing is not much different than prostitution. And if you appreciate your friendship, then I would definitely not suggest doing that, because it will make sex (and possibly the rest of your relationship, based on how you've described it) a business transaction, which does not seem to fit with friendship.

He has very good stamina and enjoys more than anything making me happy in bed. I only wish we met up more frequently and had more sex.

Does it take him an hour to cum, or does he keep going after he cums, or does he use fingers or something like that?

Usually when I hear guys talking about having sex for an hour I assume they're lying 'cause I thought most men lasted 30seconds to 5min, and then their dick gets floppy (I'm certainly that way, but I guess I don't have much experience). But a woman saying it is different because that's not bragging.

It lasts between 45-60 minutes usually and there is a lot of foreplay in there. He does have excellent stamina though, and will usually not cum until I tell him to do so. I think I must be lucky because most guys don't last that long.

So he can control when he orgasms!? That is quite talented.

You said that the sex got better the longer it lasted. Do you think he learned to control his orgasms through practice?