When an aspie DOESN'T like you.....

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OP, I can't tell you one way or the other.
I know that I am horrible att texting&calling&replying to people I love.
My mother and sister who are most precious to me, usually have to call and leave messages two or three times, text a few times and maybe drop off an e-mail as well before I get my act together and reply.
It has nothing to do with my feelings for them, it's just that when I feel social enough to communicate, it's inappropriate times of day or I am out of internet or texts or whatever. And they do have an annoying habit of calling and waking me up, and I refuse to pick up the phone when I'm sleeping, and when I'm angry I just don't want to reply. Not to mention the fact that I don't check my email for a week or two just becaus I'm too lazy.
But then again, I won't reply to someone I don't like either...

I think the easiest thing for you would be to just text/email him and ask if he wants to go on a date with you, and suggest a time and place (ie who picks up whom, or where to meet) and an activity. But be very specific about the fact that they are just suggestions, for example some people can't stand going to a movie, but would happily have dinner/coffe, others are the opposite.