Any Aspie Girls Wanna Know Me?

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This isn't the first thread where some clueless guy asks about aspie girls in his area.

Clueless? yes, bit creepy? maybe, yes, those threads always sounded creepy, but I see no signs of dangerous yet; this is a strong word.

A lot of dating profiles are way creepier than this.

This girl seems like she'd make a crappy girlfriend. I base this, of course, on absolutely nothing, kinda like many people in this thread.



You're basically my favorite poster on this site.

I'd agree. And, believe me, I've had plenty of run-ins with creepy guys.

Yep. I'm starting a collection of such bookmarked threads in case I need to make a case to someone who goes off on such a spiel. If people think something seems suspicious, they could at least bring it up and explore it courteously or with staff.

Insecure and desperate is what I would call the first post, also pessimistic and suicidal, but certainly not creepy or dangerous.

The picture also doesn't look creepy at all to me, just insecure and a lot of people are insecure, so I don't get what the fuss is all about.

Just a regular L&D post like all the others if you ask me.

I could be wrong though.

I honestly don't see anything harmful about your post, OP.
Perhaps it's not how I would personally go about selling myself, to put it nicely, but you seem like an ok chap.
One thing I would advise though is not to use the wording you use to put across this sales pitch that you are a unique and what those hipsters call a "random" dude. It does come across as a tad hostile in spite of its sincerest effort to make you look like you stand out.

I hope I didn't offend you too much with my Hannibal mockery - but at the end of the day women will want confidence and the best reaction to this is not to cry or get butthurt but to go along with it or better yet retort within the house rules and make me look silly. Same goes with the other responses.

And yes, there's no need to label a guy dangerous for being awkward and quirky. You know..this being WP I would've thought we'd come here to support each other against such irrational, unnecessary labeling. If you have huge suspicions about someone go to a mod in private or report the thread in the usual channels.

I don't have anything to say anymore. I suppose i'll stick to writing fantasy stories where people give a damn about the fictional character i create...oh but i'm sure you'll say that's creepy too, even though it makes me feel better when i'm lonely. Hell, i don't even know why i'm responding at all, i should just let you all fill this post with mockery and let you all have fun taking jabs at me....

What just happened here ?

I don't think that he seems dangerous.... he seems incredibly depressed, though.

why?

I never got why people thought of insecure people as creepy. You know alot of people think people who play D&D are really messed up, but then you get normal NT frat boys who rape girls. Honestly he posted wrong and in the wrong place but he did what he thought was good. Its not like he posted his address and they are going to meet in his basement. They will talk get to know each other meet in public and get to know each other. Odds are if most of us posted honest simple posts of our life we would all look creepy. I know I have creeped out a ton of women. Some were genuinely concerned I would hurt them. But then other have let me tie them up for fun, so I am clearly not.

Some girls see that as a warning but some would not. He is simply trying and it came out wrong. As and aspie guy thats obvious.
On another note I don't know him and he could be some serial killer, but any one of you could be, its the f*****g internet.