Should I be *realistic* and accept I'm always gonna be alone

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yah some people aren't who they say they are. For all we know The Face of Boo could be 12, ladywoofwoof could be a dude irl, and I could be a 55 year old man irl.

cody, stoopppp! hmph, men. (sarcasm, don't stone me!)

If she is underage it doesn't matter what you actually DO.
It only matters what crimes law-enforcement decides to charge you with.
If you do NOT have unimpeachable alibis for EVERY SECOND you are with her, you are opening up yourself to spending a very long time in prison with convicts that will hate you grievously for your "crime".

Once they take over, you're in serious trouble even if you do have 70 to 150 thousand dollars for an excellent attorney.
And they wont care one whit if SHE says you're innocent or not.

Back off, get out of there!

I would try to find somebody closer to your age.

It's also not a good sign that she is talking to multiple guys; she sees the guy in Egypt as her primary option & you as her 2nd or 3rd option. That means that your competing with other men for her attention.. Is that really how a woman should treat a man she cares about?

If she really liked you than she would be suggesting a visit or trying to come visit you.

I can only judge by the thread you made, but this young girl doesn't sound like the right one for you. You need to find someone who is interested in you nearly as much as you are interested in them.

some girls like aspies, its just hard to read the social cues and be socially intelligent

acting nice, how's that workin' for ya? Best to just be you

The road you are on will only lead you to disappointment and more loneliness. If you want to make it out unscarred, it's best to turn around now.

This sixteen year old girl seems to be acting like a sixteen year old girl.

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*facepalm*

This is exactly why I'm trying to get as many female friends as possible. I've wasted too much time settling with just one "special" female friend, and losing friendship when I ask to become more than just friends.

at least you have female friends

1) I'm nearly 24, she just turned 16.

...No. Just no. She is too young, and seriously waiting two years for her to turn 18 to be "legal" is crazy, especially in a long-distance relationship. Have you met her? How would you know what she's like if you haven't met her?

She is 16 and has a boyfriend in Egypt ...she just learned how to drive but has a boyfriend on the other side of the world. Not to mention Egypt is currently in turmoil, it might be some creep trying to take advantage of her. (16 year old are very hormonally vulnerable to men) You will relate to people better who are around your age. (Example, I'm 26 and can't crack a 90's joke to an 18 year old because they have no idea what I'm talking about)

Long distance relationships are not real unless you either: meet each other regularly, or have to be seperate for a certain amount of time (like going to separate colleges) ...other than that, you're heading down the wrong road.

never "accept" you're gonna be forever alone.

Success starts with believing in yourself.

Stop chasing "perfect" girls on the internet or through tenuous links.

Just go be an active, productive human. Engross yourself in work, travelling, creativity. Travel, explore yourself and the world.

You will mature massively, you will become a person worth partnering up with. You will also meet countless people who you will share experiences with as you are in the same place going through the same things at the same time. It is at these kind of times you can really connect with people, make true lasting friendships, and if the chemistry allows then more.

Just seeing a pretty girl and wondering why she is not yours will not cut it.

Its never a good idea to try and turn a friendship into a relationship.