How to talk to NT women

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Ah, yeah.

Anyways, more importantly, given where Cloud is standing on the screen and his direction, I believe that's the scene after the Temple of the Ancients, where he's having a dream and Aeris is appearing and disappearing and Sephiroth makes an appearance. Then, he wakes up in Gongaga. Just before actually going up to the Northern Continent, through Bone Village and then getting that floating summon materia (Kjata?)

12. Don't do that on your first date.

What lost561 said last, about kinds of questions to ask: notice that the questions are less "facts" and more "feelings". Questions regular NT girls want to be asked are based on feelings and experiences, they want to give their personal insight on the topic rather than recite the facts about the topic.
So questions starting with "How do you feel about [something]?", "What was it like to [something]?", "Did you like [something]?" are usually OK to keep the conversation going.

Thank you for the useful input, Marlene. I think some of the aspie males that read this will gain some knowledge on how to hold a good conversation with an NT woman.

We need more NT women here to chime in.

I think that some of the advice in here sounds really good in theory but unfortunately some of us Aspies have things that we cant help that just turns women off. It may be our looks, the expressions on our faces, the way we move/act, or maybe it's the way we say things like not giving off the rite kind of emotion in our tone of voice or we're too direct/honest/straightforward. I'm one of those & in my experience I had better luck with nonNT women. NOT necessarily on the spectrum but wouldn't qualify as NT; like my 1st girlfriend had sever dyslexia, ADHD & alittle OCD along with some emotional issues; my 2nd girlfriend was an Aspie that I met off this site & my 3rd who I moved in with last year is probably on the spectrum(may not be on the spectrum enough to be diagnosed with Aspergers but has some traits along with coexisting things like OCD, anxiety & depression). I'm not trying to derail this thread & I think it's great that some of us can be with NTs but for those of us who just have no luck with them like me may have alot more luck with nonNTs; I'm not saying to write NTs off but it may be better to change the active search from NTs to nonNTs.

hey babe wanna play club penguin together?

This is an excellent point and to be honest I've never thought about this. I'll be giving this one some thought. I actually met some German girls and one of the things I once asked them was "are the metros like this in Germany or are they better." This wasn't 5 minutes after I'd first met them it was several months in but good point. I never once asked them what their family was like because I didn't know what to ask. I know they have a mother and father so there was nothing to ask about that. I could have asked do you have any brothers and sisters though. I did ask where they were from in Germany but then that isn't personal again. But then there's nothing wrong with that question as long as it's not the sole basis of the conversation. Tuning my brain into this difference may take a while. Where did you learn this from?