Some Epic Experience Huh?

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see this might be a good reason not to get a gf. You can avoid all the random drama. Me i'm ridin solo. Yah girlfriends suk!

but... I don't wanna be forever alone...

so lonely....

very lonely...

Hang on a minute.

Here's the title of the thread:

Some Epic Experience Huh?

OP, what exactly did you mean by this, it doesn't kind of correlate with what you have written.

You've got to consider she might not want help, but someone who will listen and accept her for who she is now.
Another thing is a lot of abuse and trauma victims develop Stockholm Syndrome or similar and will make relationships with people like you unintentionally difficult or keep going back to bad people.

She definitely has very intense emotions and I think if you're going to be with her you have to be either the calm one or equally reactive. Don't try to save her, just accept her as she is or go with the flow.
If you feel you must be with her, all the best.

some people cannot be saved.

This has already been explained to you sooooooo many times. It's starting to feel like a broken record. I''ll post my response in one of your threads so I don't derail this one.........

Last edited by Geekonychus on 22 Oct 2013, 1:14 pm, edited 1 time in total.

C'mon guys. This guy needs advice. Can you take your little ego war somewhere else? You're ruining all the threads.

I can't believe that people are surprised that she did what she did. Women will most of the time try to get even with you if you do something that hurts them or pisses them off. Usually something more harsh than what you did to hurt them. But this sounds like something normal in a relationship. I'm still not clear as to whether or not shaded was in a relationship with this woman or not even though they've seeing each other for a couple years if I'm not mistaken? Kind of confusing. But when you see a woman for that long she is going to have feelings for you and be defensive so don't be surprised if she try's to make you jealous by retaliating like she did. Yes geeko I still want a response.

Brought it over to one of his threads instead.

Please don't report it to the moderators for being off topic januaryman

Have fun.

OP, as labby said. Some people can't be saved, either.

You are right though. I admit. And maybe she does have that Stockholm Syndrome? When I named it "Some Epic Experience Huh?"
I meant by I never experienced anyone react towards me like this. Lol
Its different.

I myself didn't think it was a relationship. She thought it was probably. We only known eachother all of a couple weeks. Nothing else more. That's why its all crazy. Only a few weeks and she said I stole her heart. Only thing I did was be nice to her. I guess that goes a long way. I know she's bad news. But most likely I probably won't stick with her.

I really feel that she only values how I make her feel--which isn't terrible. But its one-sided. She barely asks things about me. And she doesn't contact me often. Last text she sent me was approximately 8 hours ago. Lol
I don't know nothing about love--but I do know that if I loved someone I would text them or contact them more often than that. Lol

I forgot to mention though. When I went to visit her after the phone argument, we were talking. And she said, "You have no idea what I did for you. I deleted all my numbers that were guys..."

I replied with, "Okay, I'm sorry you did that. But did I ask you to do that?" I asked her that repeatedly until she gave me a yes-or-no answer. Lol
But I feel like, if you aren't talking to me then you probably talking to someone else. Which I don't care. I don't think I can necessarily "help" her. I just gave her advice.

speaking of epic

heres 1 hour epic music. I recommend listening when you're playing video games or taking a dump.





[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DMTXiNVc-1g[/youtube]

Two Steps from Hell ftw!

Ya I the first indication would have been that she opened up that much to you right away. That is usually a bad sign.

You did the decent and right thing by standing by her but if you truly only care for, she deserves someone who will love her and you need to realize you are not that person.

Yep. Sounds like you're enjoying the 'project'.

It tells me you're enjoying it for being different - thus you're playing some to equal part in fuelling the drama. I'm not so sure you're being as gallant as you're making out in your original post.

It's like saying "Oh it's a lion, isn't it cute, let me play with it a bit...oh crap, it's just bitten my arm off haha isn't it different". Lions will do what they are meant to do. And so will this woman. Play with fire, and, well.

Caution. Oh, and I hope you're using protection, or will, further down the track. A little 'baby drama' would really spice things up, wouldn't it.