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11 Nov 2013, 10:07 pm

I am still young, at 26, my journey is far from over!


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12 Nov 2013, 10:24 pm

Whom here is at peace with their relationship status? I want to hear from ya.


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14 Nov 2013, 6:26 pm

I've also come to realize, that given how divorce rates are, at my age, I'm just merely biding my time.


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15 Nov 2013, 9:05 am

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There are days when I wish with everything in me, that I could be at peace as a single man. But I've been alone emotionally for so long, and every day feels like one more weight on my heart, mind, and soul. I've loved and trusted so few people in my life, most of them having betrayed or abandoned me. I need someone who I can see and hear, that loves and accepts me as I am. Otherwise, I'm afraid that place in my heart will remain cold and hardened.

Ever give any thoughts to Priesthood? You do like all that Jesusy judgemental stuff and celibacy is encouraged/mandated.



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15 Nov 2013, 9:40 am

Who's What?



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17 Nov 2013, 9:53 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Who's What?


I'n confused now.

But that aside, getting back to my original point, I'd love to ask my girl out, but she is just busy. Which I understand.


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17 Nov 2013, 10:16 pm

I can sympathize with you. I had to face the options: Change, or stay alone. I chose to change, and it has come at great cost. If you can manage without having to make that sacrifice, consider yourself blessed.



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18 Nov 2013, 10:08 am

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I can sympathize with you. I had to face the options: Change, or stay alone. I chose to change, and it has come at great cost. If you can manage without having to make that sacrifice, consider yourself blessed.


At the same time, I also feel kinda torn between whether I should be on my own, or have a woman in my life. It's tearing me apart, I tell ya!


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20 Nov 2013, 12:13 am

I will be honest about myself: While I am at peace with (technically) being single, I actually feel kinda torn. Should I stay on my own, and be more in control of myself, or have a girlfriend and eventually marry her to increase my happiness?


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20 Nov 2013, 12:45 am

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I will be honest about myself: While I am at peace with (technically) being single, I actually feel kinda torn. Should I stay on my own, and be more in control of myself, or have a girlfriend and eventually marry her to increase my happiness?


There are many other marvels in life man! Success is not based on whether you get married and have kids or find a GF/BF. I'd be lying if I said I wasn't cold and cynical but I cannot deny it. I am to a point where I don't even care for women anymore. I don't care for dating. Its tedious and misleading. Sure I get lonely a night. That's what my hands are for. And when I go places myself I save more money. I don't have to do things just because another person wants me to. Just go with life to your own drum. Have I given up dating completely, no. But I'm not willing to put up with the small stuff anymore. If she doesn't show interest in me I'll move on to the next (if there is a next).

Focus on improving something else in life. And pick up as many hobbies as you can. All my friends are married, have kids GF, or meeting way more women than me. But I cannot dwell into that. Most likely I will be single through all my 20s I am betting on. And if I do get serious with a woman she'll probably be foreign and not from this country. Just don't try to hard. Once I realized how hard I wanted it I started acting out of character. Now I plain just don't care. And a shroud of peace came upon me.


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20 Nov 2013, 6:01 pm

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equestriatola wrote:
I will be honest about myself: While I am at peace with (technically) being single, I actually feel kinda torn. Should I stay on my own, and be more in control of myself, or have a girlfriend and eventually marry her to increase my happiness?


There are many other marvels in life man! Success is not based on whether you get married and have kids or find a GF/BF. I'd be lying if I said I wasn't cold and cynical but I cannot deny it. I am to a point where I don't even care for women anymore. I don't care for dating. Its tedious and misleading. Sure I get lonely a night. That's what my hands are for. And when I go places myself I save more money. I don't have to do things just because another person wants me to. Just go with life to your own drum. Have I given up dating completely, no. But I'm not willing to put up with the small stuff anymore. If she doesn't show interest in me I'll move on to the next (if there is a next).

Focus on improving something else in life. And pick up as many hobbies as you can. All my friends are married, have kids GF, or meeting way more women than me. But I cannot dwell into that. Most likely I will be single through all my 20s I am betting on. And if I do get serious with a woman she'll probably be foreign and not from this country. Just don't try to hard. Once I realized how hard I wanted it I started acting out of character. Now I plain just don't care. And a shroud of peace came upon me.


Thank you. Whenever I think of the fact that I want a GF, I look the coupling of Fergie/Josh Duhamel.


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22 Nov 2013, 8:05 pm

I posted a "feeling lonely" thread not too long ago, and it makes me happy that I am not alone in being alone. :)


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10 Dec 2013, 11:13 pm

Thank you to all my supporters here. :)


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23 Dec 2013, 10:03 pm

So it's the holiday season....... and 2014 is near. Here is hoping that woman comes into my life (and eventually Hollywood)!


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