am I a pua

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OP is not a PUA, he's just a very naughty boy...

The only way I'd think someone would get away with that, is if he was funny, or followed it up with something interesting.

You need to see a therapist about this stuff. Harassing people isn't a joke. You sound more immature then bad at this point but I don't really know.

'you like winners,cuz Im a winner''
''about you have two boyfriends''
''your husband wouldn't care if we hung out,he be for it''
''so,are you a mormon,into pologamy''(to married woman)
''you look alot like taylor swift''
''hey,Im standing up straight,that shows confidence,
how about you date me''

While I don't promote this sort of talk (unless done in a funny way), I don't see how this shows OP needs therapy.

^^^ Those lines are sad actually but I was more thinking about this part and other things the OP has said.

Nah Bill, not a PUA just a person who wants to pick up. Probably best not to use that sort of language and treatment of others that happen to be women. Forgetting anything to do with picking up women for the moment, it's just a matter of common courtesy. Good luck in your quest at any rate.

You don't strike me as a PUA type. Everyone flirts with women.

Holy s**t Billis, are you seriously saying those lines to women?

HAHAHAHAHA XD

I've only managed to succsefully use PUA tactics on a couple people. Only seemed to work on immature, insecure types. Some of them didn't have the strongest boundaries either. The lines used in the OP wouldn't work on anyone I know. I found a real sense of humour worked best with some of them provided it wasn't mean.

For example: telling them that their texting you during a certain time (before bed, during lunch, morning, before going out somewhere.) is "romantic." Even if it isn't even close to being romantic.
Then there is the stuff that can raise the sexual tension between the two of you once you realize the attraction and possible chemistry this person has with you.

I wouldn't be surprised if you get a lot of verbal abuse if you said most of those.

Really, it's not a good plan. A girl's boyfriend will threaten you.

Those lines are so dodgy that they deserve to be reposted in the "crappy pick up lines" topic.
Just saying...

I don't know very much about the whole PUA thing but I do know they see it as a numbers game therefore a real PUA would rule out married women very quickly, I would have thought. The idea is to talk to a large number of women and try and pick up all of the single ones. Not just try and pick up any woman you see! man!

''you like winners,cuz Im a winner''

Telling people what they like doesn't go down well usually. at least say:

''you must like winners,cuz Im a winner''

but only if you're sure they like you, and even then, it's still a cheesy line and why would you need to use cheesy lines on someone who already likes you?

Also try to understand that PUA is a marketing term to describe the kind of people who make those videos and materials.

I don't see why any normal person would want to be called a PUA unless they were trying to sell dating advice.

Try "Hi, I'm Bill."

to be fair,I never hit on drunk and party/bars girl,
which pua guys usually go after.

most of my ladies I hit on are 19-22 year old,athletic,
college going.