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Summer_Twilight
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19 Nov 2013, 11:19 am

I had a nice weekend away from everything and everyone to clear my head and I just feel that things are moving too fast for me. I did just manage to write him a letter of assertion to let him know that I was thankful for buying me dinner and offering me rides. I also said that I felt like things seemed to indicate that he wanted to date without being upfront about it. I said that I was not ready and that he is welcome to join group gatherings while saying that I did not have any feelings back towards him at this time.



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19 Nov 2013, 12:40 pm

So what kind of guy do you like?



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19 Nov 2013, 1:46 pm

You know? I am not really thinking about that right now. I have so much going on that I have not really paid attention.

Anyway he had accepted what I said and respected my point of view but he is still trying to push the whole "Best friend thing." While it is nice, I just thought it was too soon to look at me as a bestie since we have known each other for a MONTH. I told him that it was too soon.



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19 Nov 2013, 1:48 pm

Are you at least happy as you are?



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19 Nov 2013, 2:50 pm

Yes.



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19 Nov 2013, 4:05 pm

Summer_Twilight wrote:
Anyway he had accepted what I said and respected my point of view but he is still trying to push the whole "Best friend thing.


Cut him loose!

The man is desperate and is begging to be with you.