Monolithe wrote:
Geee!
Excuse me but you do know that there are a lot of differences in men and women's psychic, women are naturally more vulnerable and self critical, and if they've experienced a lot of let downs and criticism during their childhood/as they grow up they become more self aware, and insecure about themselves.. Some girl's find it hard to "escape" the past, the memories had to much of an impact on them, so they talk themselves down, because after a while they actually do believe their just that bad. These girl's need help, someone to help them learn to love themselves again, only then will they learn to be more confident and such.
Oh and isn't it ironic that you mentioned - "
picky ladies"'-''the Im overweight,rude,uneducated but
I want a healthy,rich,male model'' - You just described how many men also are like

Only with males, fat overweight picky men buy convertibles and try to impress women with material things, and the type of woman they often wan't is the exact opposite of themselves: skinny, athletic, gorgeous, young.. You actually see more of that then you see of picky overweight women
The problem is that people expect to get together with people out of their league, they do need some common interests and such to be compatible usually, which is why it's strange when overweight people are so focused on being romantically involved with someone who cares about fitness...
Men and women both can be just as stupid, but remember that bad personalities/behavior is often the cause of past experiences.
In my life, I have seen way more fat women with fit men than vice versa, but this in my country.
There's a lot of "we girls are victims" mindset in your post btw; not saying that bill's thread isn't dumb but yours is also so self-victimizing.
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Some girl's find it hard to "escape" the past, the memories had to much of an impact on them, so they talk themselves down, because after a while they actually do believe their just that bad. These girl's need help, someone to help them learn to love themselves again, only then will they learn to be more confident and such.
Same for boys who faced bullying in their past - and while girls can seek help from other girls or from a boyfriend, a guy can't - guys who show weakness are judged harshly, by guys and girls alike, that's why you rarely find guys vent about their inner demons and issues with other guys or girls in real life. In most countries, the male suicide rate is 3 to 4 times than females except in China...because in China women are culturally conditioned to struggle without whining/venting.
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