Men, would you date a hot girl with a crap personality?

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10 Dec 2013, 9:40 pm

Of course.



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16 Dec 2013, 7:46 pm

No, I'd just wind up hating myself for it. Personality is more important, good looks are a bonus.


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17 Dec 2013, 8:15 am

Lets just say I wouldn't 'date' her. Depends what her ailment is. If I loathe her however, it's just not happening.



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17 Dec 2013, 10:09 am

Nope.

I've gotten to talk to "hot" girls in nightclubs, and they only seemed to want their end away with me.

Yeah, with a personality of a tomato, I don't think long-term's for me with someone like that.



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17 Dec 2013, 10:37 am

Personally, I don't like using the word "hot" to describe someone I'm attracted to. That aside, attractiveness entails personality for me, so I wouldn't be able to date someone solely on looks.


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17 Dec 2013, 11:30 am

How would you know she had a crap personality without dating her?

A hot girl is still a hot girl.



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17 Dec 2013, 1:26 pm

NO!


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17 Dec 2013, 2:29 pm

starenczak wrote:
How would you know she had a crap personality without dating her?


Um, so if you are introduced to a woman, that means you are dating? Like, you don't actually know any females that are not either your mother, your sister or your date?

Did you really mean to say what you just said?



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17 Dec 2013, 4:55 pm

A hot girl with a crappy personality? I would never date that. Looks fade with age, but personality does not. Leave her alone, and maybe someday, if or when she is isolated, she might realize that there is something wrong and get therapy for her cruel ways.



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18 Dec 2013, 1:26 pm

leafplant wrote:
starenczak wrote:
How would you know she had a crap personality without dating her?


Um, so if you are introduced to a woman, that means you are dating? Like, you don't actually know any females that are not either your mother, your sister or your date?

Did you really mean to say what you just said?


Yes - if you think you can judge someone's personality to be crap at a dating stage, you're in for a world of eye-openers! Sorry if this is too much to take in but this is a pointless thread anyway so I wouldn't worry about it too much :)



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18 Dec 2013, 8:58 pm

If you're sharing your life with someone who annoys you, it's a recipe for disaster; but it takes more time to size up a personality than it does for looks.


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18 Dec 2013, 9:19 pm

No, but id bang her



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18 Dec 2013, 9:20 pm

I like people with a good heart.

You can be dim & uninteresting but still have a good heart.

A good heart + physical attractiveness would be just fine and dandy for me. It does mean that I would end up very lazy but it would be very comforting to have someone like this around. In the same people have love for anything "vulnerable" a child, a puppy..

I would opt for brainy/interesting and moderately ugly over dim and super hot though. But the good heart is an absolute must.

A relationship with an interesting brainy person would be really exhausting and fiery for me though, probably be the end of me. But I would do it anyway.



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18 Dec 2013, 10:34 pm

No. Personality is an absolute standard that must be passed for me to even have a spark of interest in a girl. If you're not even generous, you're immediately out of my league. (For the wrong reasons.)



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18 Dec 2013, 11:20 pm

I dont know, it really depends on what crappy personality means.

Personally if i were to ever have a girlfriend again "which i highly doubt". personality if far more important, i cant really use looks for anything.

I would imagine my personality personally is crappy. based on my abilty to not get along with other people.



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19 Dec 2013, 8:46 pm

I made that mistake and married her to boot. We are currently going through a nasty divorce. I have a talent for picking women that are bad for me. This was my 3rd marriage. I think I learned my lesson this time. No more marriages for me.