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13 Dec 2013, 5:07 am

To her, it's not her fault for fooling around with a married man, and it's not his fault for trying to control her or being insecure. She is blaming me for "commenting too much".

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15 Dec 2013, 11:37 am

Even if she did break off the affair, I would have no chance because I don't look like Adam Levine.

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15 Dec 2013, 12:09 pm

Tim_Tex wrote:

To her, it's not her fault for fooling around with a married man, and it's not his fault for trying to control her or being insecure. She is blaming me for "commenting too much".

Then stop commenting so much. It's not your place and that's what she is saying.

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15 Dec 2013, 12:37 pm

KingofKaboom wrote:

Tim_Tex wrote:

To her, it's not her fault for fooling around with a married man, and it's not his fault for trying to control her or being insecure. She is blaming me for "commenting too much".

Then stop commenting so much. It's not your place and that's what she is saying.

But she had no problem with other people commenting at higher frequencies.

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15 Dec 2013, 1:00 pm

Tim_Tex wrote:

KingofKaboom wrote:

Tim_Tex wrote:

To her, it's not her fault for fooling around with a married man, and it's not his fault for trying to control her or being insecure. She is blaming me for "commenting too much".

Then stop commenting so much. It's not your place and that's what she is saying.

But she had no problem with other people commenting at higher frequencies.

She has problems with you commenting. And she said so, respect her and don't comment.

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15 Dec 2013, 1:07 pm

It's a moot point now, I was already unfriended. Apparently, only those in her inner circle can comment, and you are magically expected to know that without her having to tell you.

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15 Dec 2013, 1:10 pm

Tim_Tex wrote:

It's a moot point now, I was already unfriended. Apparently, only those in her inner circle can comment, and you are magically expected to know that without her having to tell you.

Only close friends can comment on her relationships. Take this as a chance to learn from the situation.

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15 Dec 2013, 1:14 pm

KingofKaboom wrote:

Tim_Tex wrote:

It's a moot point now, I was already unfriended. Apparently, only those in her inner circle can comment, and you are magically expected to know that without her having to tell you.

Only close friends can comment on her relationships. Take this as a chance to learn from the situation.

The comments weren't about relationships, they were just interesting articles and funny things she posted.

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15 Dec 2013, 1:17 pm

And yet you bring up her dating life for some reason that I can't quite understand... If he was jealous and didn't want her and you talking then don't talk. You can't control that and even if she allows him to that's her choice. I have a friend who's boyfriend is crazy jealous and sends me offensive racist and hurtful texts but she has told me to ignore him and that she chooses her friends. She chooses who she talks to. Not everyone does that. Sorry man just learn what you can from the experience.

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15 Dec 2013, 1:28 pm

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She's gone forever and it's all my fault!! !

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15 Dec 2013, 3:21 pm

Tim_Tex wrote:

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She's gone forever and it's all my fault!! !

She was never "there" to begin with and everyone makes mistakes. It takes a lot of will power to like yourself man but she's sleeping with a married man is that the type you're into? From what I've seen of your posts it isn't. Personally I wouldn't give her a second glance if she did something like this. It always hurts when it's fresh give it time.

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15 Dec 2013, 10:20 pm

It's because there are almost no women in my area with the same interests, and I felt like I had to take whatever I could get. I normally do not tolerate such behaviors in women.

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15 Dec 2013, 10:23 pm

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It's because there are almost no women in my area with the same interests, and I felt like I had to take whatever I could get. I normally do not tolerate such behaviors in women.

If you can't stick with your beliefs that matter to you what kind of relationship is that. You got money? Hookers aren't expensive and play girlfriend well I've heard. If you're willing to give up your own morals go all the way. You'd never have respected her or trusted her. She isn't worth any turmoil. Use this as a chance to learn.

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15 Dec 2013, 10:30 pm

I am worried that if I stick to my beliefs, then I have written off anybody with the same interests.

Here in Houston, unless you are either a hipster or a religious extremist, there is nobody out there for you.

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15 Dec 2013, 10:33 pm

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I am worried that if I stick to my beliefs, then I have written off anybody with the same interests.

Then try to learn to cope with worry. I have that problem I worry all the time about everything. I learned a lot of my problems and issues stem from anxiety mainly social anxiety. You won't be happy with a woman you don't respect.

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