What makes you feel loved?

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Ive had Women say they Love me, I do not recall getting any feelings from such statements, except revulsion maybe.
The only time I ever actually felt Loved was the way the family dog would gaze at me.

Note this isn't in response to anybody on this forum.

What would make me feel loved?

To be respected fully, and fully appreciated. I get so disappointed everytime a guy tries to play games with me or make me jealous. I don't understand it, and to me they look like a little kid, and my feelings for them vanish a little each time.

Also, to make me feel loved, that person would somehow have to convince me that they're really into me and that they'll stay with me for a long time. To be honest, asking for those three things (respect, appreciation and commitment) seems to be too much to ask.

If those things were (ever) in place, then hugs and being told how important I was to that guy, would make me feel loved. Make me out to be important and intelligent (convincingly), and you've probably got a keeper. Kindness and patience makes me melt.

Oh yes, unreliability kills it for me too. It makes me feel very disrespected.

I'm always weary when I get along well too fast with someone. It's usually because they make it happen, and they lose interest as quickly as they found it.

Smudge. Unreliability is a major turn off for me as well. So are flimsy excuses that come along with the unreliability. (Ie the weird explanation about doing her hair that prevented her from coming out... Of all the days she choose to do her hair? Not buying it)

If I have greasy hair? I use Batiste dry shampoo. I'm probably one of the most lazy women.

Seriously though, I think some women are like that (won't go out). I saw your thread about the woman saying she was busy. What happened to her? I think you cut it off too early too. I know exactly where you're coming from though. I can't stand interpreting those invisible words.

She called me later on that night. We talked the next night after seeing a play. The conversations are somewhat more serious, and we still go out and have fun. She stated she wanted exclusiveness. I said that I won't date others.

The flimsy excuse thing has nothing to do with her. It had more to do with people who are unreliable. Different experience.

Someone who will accept me without any pre-judgement.