What will it take for me to find love?

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I see.

It's 2014 now, and something amazing has happened to me! I won't say who, but I think I may have found love for the first time ever!

That is not fair. You're going to have to share otherwise it's keeping the viewers in suspense, a cliff-hanger to a series if you will

Best of luck regardless, it's a new year after all!

Thanks. Right back atcha.

Eh, I was in a relationship for all of a week. I feel EMBOLDENED, though! Bring on the world!

just for a week?

i hate the "stop looking" sugestion cause like how is a woman going find me in my bedroom?

from working at a store cashiering during 2 weeks every 3 months i'm able to approach strangers and start talking but i can't go up to women

as for doing other stuff i play games and surf the net but life without a gf is so empty and more so without friends.

That's good, but I'm concerned about your perception of love as it relates to a relationships. The whole love-at-first-sight thing, even if you believe in it, is rare. Romantic love usually develops gradually as two people learn more about each other and share more of their lives.

The process usually goes:
Dating---->Mutual attraction over several months/years---->Love

Not so much:
Ask girl out to dinner-------->Fall in love before the appetizers get to the table

Stay positive, but treat it like a process. Having a good time on the first date is more than enough to ask for a second. There doesn't need to be a Shakespearean longing for one another at that point. Besides, everyone just ends up getting poisoned in those plays anyway.