What's your flirting style? (link provided)

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Physical style: not very physical

You scored higher than 20–30% of other survey takers in your demographic.

You are not very comfortable and competent in expressing your sexual interest to potential partners. You are not very capable of figuring out that potential partners are interested in you, and not very effective at conveying romantic interest to potential partners. In your last serious relationship, it was not very likely that you:
Felt attracted right away.
Were successful when you flirted using your body language.


Traditional style: traditional

You scored higher than 40–50% of other survey takers in your demographic.

For this flirting style, you are very similar to the majority of people. It is not a dominant style for you. This flirting style probably doesn’t play a big role in your flirting behavior.


Polite style: polite

You scored higher than 40–50% of other survey takers in your demographic.

For this flirting style, you are very similar to the majority of people. It is not a dominant style for you. This flirting style probably doesn’t play a big role in your flirting behavior.


Sincere style: not very sincere

You scored higher than 30–40% of other survey takers in your demographic.

You are not very interested in seeking emotional connection and showing sincere interest when flirting. You find flirting not very flattering, and do not really believe that personal and private conversation is the best way to develop romance. When flirting, it is not very likely that you are:
Successful
Confident
Able to quickly determine relationship potential
In serious relationships, you are not very likely to experience a strong emotional connection and sexual chemistry.

Playful style: not at all playful

You scored higher than 10–20% of other survey takers in your demographic.

You are very unlikely to use flirting to boost your self-esteem and to have a good time. You strongly believe that flirting should be reserved for the purpose of developing a relationship. You are very unlikely to flirt with those who you have no long-term romantic interest. You are very unlikely to find romantic interest in many other people, and to flirt everywhere you go. You do not believe that flirting is flattering and enjoyable. In your last serious relationship, you were very unlikely to have a short and unimportant relationship that moved quickly, but didn’t last. - See more at: http://flirtingstyles.dept.ku.edu/resul ... kUPZa.dpuf





;___; I am dying alone.

Physical style: somewhat physical
You scored higher than 60–70% of other survey takers in your demographic.

You are somewhat comfortable and competent in expressing your sexual interest to potential partners. You are somewhat capable of figuring out that potential partners are interested in you, and somewhat effective at conveying romantic interest to potential partners. In your last serious relationship, it was somewhat likely that you:
•Felt attracted right away.
•Were successful when you flirted using your body language.

Traditional style: not very traditional
You scored higher than 20–30% of other survey takers in your demographic.

You do not really believe that men should make the first move and women should not pursue men. You are not very likely to feel uncomfortable in a flirting situation where a woman takes charge. You tend to be not very choosey about who you flirt with, and it is not very likely that you are selective about who you pursue romantic relationships with. In serious relationships, you do not really believe that you should know a potential relationship partner for a long time before approaching them. You are not very likely to seek out important and meaningful romantic relationships.

Polite style: not at all polite
You scored higher than 0–10% of other survey takers in your demographic.

You do not believe that courtship should be cautious and rule-governed. You are very unlikely to use proper manners, non-sexual communication, and less forward behavior during courtship. You tend to be not at all choosey about who you flirt with, and it is very unlikely that you took a long time to get to know someone before you knew you were romantically interested in them. You are very likely to like the singles scene and the way people typically flirt with one another. You are very unlikely to seek out important and meaningful romantic relationships.

Sincere style: sincere
You scored higher than 40–50% of other survey takers in your demographic.

For this flirting style, you are very similar to the majority of people. It is not a dominant style for you. This flirting style probably doesn’t play a big role in your flirting behavior.

Playful style: not very playful
You scored higher than 30–40% of other survey takers in your demographic.

You are not very likely to use flirting to boost your self-esteem and to have a good time. You believe that flirting should be reserved for the purpose of developing a relationship. You are not very likely to flirt with those who you have no long-term romantic interest. You are not very likely to find romantic interest in many other people, and to flirt everywhere you go. You do not really believe that flirting is flattering and enjoyable. In your last serious relationship, you were not very likely to have a short and unimportant relationship that moved quickly, but didn’t last.

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I bolded the parts that I find to be dead wrong. So now I'm left more confused than before I took the quiz! LOL

Physical style: physicalYou scored higher than 50–60% of other survey takers in your demographic.For this flirting style, you are very similar to the majority of
people. It is not a dominant style for you. This flirting style probably doesn’t play a big role in your flirting behavior.

Traditional style: traditionalYou scored higher than 40–50% of other survey takers in your demographic.For this flirting style, you are very similar to the majority of people. It is not a dominant style for you. This flirting style probably doesn’t play a big role in your flirting behavior.

Polite style: politeYou scored higher than 50–60% of other survey takers in your demographic.For this flirting style, you are very similar to the majority of people. It is not a dominant style for you. This flirting style probably doesn’t play a big role in your flirting behavior.

Sincere style: sincereYou scored higher than 40–50% of other survey takers in your demographic.For this flirting style, you are very similar to the majority of people. It is not a dominant style for you. This flirting style probably doesn’t play a big role in your flirting behavior.

Playful style: somewhat playfulYou scored higher than 70–80% of other survey takers in your demographic.You are somewhat likely to use flirting to boost your self-esteem and to have a good time. You do not really believe that flirting should be reserved for the purpose of developing a relationship. You are somewhat likely to flirt with those who you have no long-term romantic interest. You are somewhat likely to find romantic interest in many other people, and to flirt everywhere you go. You believe that flirting is flattering and enjoyable. In your last serious relationship, you were somewhat likely to have a short and unimportant relationship that moved quickly, but didn’t last.

Physical style: not very physical
You scored higher than 20–30% of other survey takers in your demographic.

You are not very comfortable and competent in expressing your sexual interest to potential partners. You are not very capable of figuring out that potential partners are interested in you, and not very effective at conveying romantic interest to potential partners. In your last serious relationship, it was not very likely that you:
Felt attracted right away.
Were successful when you flirted using your body language.
Traditional style: very traditional
You scored higher than 90–100% of other survey takers in your demographic.

You strongly believe that men should make the first move and women should not pursue men. You are very likely to feel uncomfortable in a flirting situation where a woman takes charge. You tend to be very choosey about who you flirt with, and it is very likely that you are selective about who you pursue romantic relationships with. In serious relationships, you strongly believe that you should know a potential relationship partner for a long time before approaching them. You are very likely to seek out important and meaningful romantic relationships.
Polite style: very polite
You scored higher than 80–90% of other survey takers in your demographic.

You strongly believe that courtship should be cautious and rule-governed. You are very likely to use proper manners, non-sexual communication, and less forward behavior during courtship. You tend to be very choosey about who you flirt with, and it is very likely that you took a long time to get to know someone before you knew you were romantically interested in them. You are very ulikely to like the singles scene and the way people typically flirt with one another. You are very likely to seek out important and meaningful romantic relationships.
Sincere style: somewhat sincere
You scored higher than 70–80% of other survey takers in your demographic.

You are somewhat interested in seeking emotional connection and showing sincere interest when flirting. You find flirting somewhat flattering, and believe that personal and private conversation is the best way to develop romance. When flirting, it is somewhat likely that you are:
Successful
Confident
Able to quickly determine relationship potential
In serious relationships, you are somewhat likely to experience a strong emotional connection and sexual chemistry.
Playful style: playful
You scored higher than 40–50% of other survey takers in your demographic.

For this flirting style, you are very similar to the majority of people. It is not a dominant style for you. This flirting style probably doesn’t play a big role in your flirting

Physical: 10-20%
Traditional: 0-10%
Polite: 90-100%
Sincere: 70-80%
Playful: 0-10%

"In your last serious relationship, it was very unlikely that you: Felt attracted right away."
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"When flirting, it is somewhat likely that you are: Able to quickly determine relationship potential"

"You tend to be not at all choosey about who you flirt with, and it is very unlikely that you are selective about who you pursue romantic relationships with."
Later contains...
"You tend to be very choosey about who you flirt with, and it is very likely that you took a long time to get to know someone before you knew you were romantically interested in them."

"You are very unlikely to seek out important and meaningful romantic relationships."
Later contains...
"You are very likely to seek out important and meaningful romantic relationships."

Umm... Did I break the server or something? Is this a joke? Should I email the developers and tell them that aspies completely break their quiz?

10–20% Physical

40–50% Traditional

50–60% Polite

40–50% Sincere

20–30% Playful

My usual form of flirting is staring at someone slightly more than usual and hoping they'll make a move one day.

Your results are in!

This is what your flirting style means for your dating life. For all of these responses, you are compared against other people your same age and sex. The flirting style with the highest score tells you the most about your dating life.
40–50%
Physical
10–20%
Traditional
50–60%
Polite
40–50%
Sincere
80–90%
Playful

Physical style: physical

You scored higher than 40–50% of other survey takers in your demographic.
For this flirting style, you are very similar to the majority of people. It is not a dominant style for you. This flirting style probably doesn’t play a big role in your flirting behavior.
Traditional style: not at all traditional

You scored higher than 10–20% of other survey takers in your demographic.
You do not believe that men should make the first move and women should not pursue men. You are very unlikely to feel uncomfortable in a flirting situation where a woman takes charge. You tend to be not at all choosey about who you flirt with, and it is very unlikely that you are selective about who you pursue romantic relationships with. In serious relationships, you do not believe that you should know a potential relationship partner for a long time before approaching them. You are very unlikely to seek out important and meaningful romantic relationships.
Polite style: polite

You scored higher than 50–60% of other survey takers in your demographic.
For this flirting style, you are very similar to the majority of people. It is not a dominant style for you. This flirting style probably doesn’t play a big role in your flirting behavior.
Sincere style: sincere

You scored higher than 40–50% of other survey takers in your demographic.
For this flirting style, you are very similar to the majority of people. It is not a dominant style for you. This flirting style probably doesn’t play a big role in your flirting behavior.
Playful style: very playful

You scored higher than 80–90% of other survey takers in your demographic.
You are very likely to use flirting to boost your self-esteem and to have a good time. You do not believe that flirting should be reserved for the purpose of developing a relationship. You are very likely to flirt with those who you have no long-term romantic interest. You are very likely to find romantic interest in many other people, and to flirt everywhere you go. You strongly believe that flirting is flattering and enjoyable. In your last serious relationship, you were very likely to have a short and unimportant relationship that moved quickly, but didn’t last.



The playful definitely fits. My husband can tell anyone just how silly I was when we first met XD

Physical style: not very physical

You scored higher than 20–30% of other survey takers in your demographic.
You are not very comfortable and competent in expressing your sexual interest to potential partners. You are not very capable of figuring out that potential partners are interested in you, and not very effective at conveying romantic interest to potential partners. In your last serious relationship, it was not very likely that you:

Felt attracted right away.
Were successful when you flirted using your body language.

Traditional style: not very traditional

You scored higher than 20–30% of other survey takers in your demographic.
You do not really believe that men should make the first move and women should not pursue men. You are not very likely to feel uncomfortable in a flirting situation where a woman takes charge. You tend to be not very choosey about who you flirt with, and it is not very likely that you are selective about who you pursue romantic relationships with. In serious relationships, you do not really believe that you should know a potential relationship partner for a long time before approaching them. You are not very likely to seek out important and meaningful romantic relationships.
Polite style: somewhat polite

You scored higher than 60–70% of other survey takers in your demographic.
You believe that courtship should be cautious and rule-governed. You are somewhat likely to use proper manners, non-sexual communication, and less forward behavior during courtship. You tend to be somewhat choosey about who you flirt with, and it is somewhat likely that you took a long time to get to know someone before you knew you were romantically interested in them. You are not very likely to like the singles scene and the way people typically flirt with one another. You are somewhat likely to seek out important and meaningful romantic relationships.
Sincere style: very sincere

You scored higher than 80–90% of other survey takers in your demographic.
You are very interested in seeking emotional connection and showing sincere interest when flirting. You find flirting very flattering, and strongly believe that personal and private conversation is the best way to develop romance. When flirting, it is very likely that you are:

Successful
Confident
Able to quickly determine relationship potential

In serious relationships, you are very likely to experience a strong emotional connection and sexual chemistry.
Playful style: not very playful

You scored higher than 20–30% of other survey takers in your demographic.
You are not very likely to use flirting to boost your self-esteem and to have a good time. You believe that flirting should be reserved for the purpose of developing a relationship. You are not very likely to flirt with those who you have no long-term romantic interest. You are not very likely to find romantic interest in many other people, and to flirt everywhere you go. You do not really believe that flirting is flattering and enjoyable. In your last serious relationship, you were not very likely to have a short and unimportant relationship that moved quickly, but didn’t last. - See more at: http://flirtingstyles.dept.ku.edu/resul ... MuEm0.dpuf


WTH?????

The sincere style says I'm the most sincere stud muffin in the whole world, and the others (other than polite styles) all say I'm a loser?

HOw the heck is this even pOSSibLE?

Other than the sincere style results, this test is completely fubar!! ! But thank goodness I'm not traditional, who cares if the lady initiates?

The test never told you that you were a loser Apple. But what it did tell you is that you are a genuine nice guy, not the Nice Guy TM. Unfortunately though, the majority of women in your age group are likely to be more traditional. Beware of the playful type though as they often take advantage of the sincere type. You'd probably hit it off best with another person who is both Sincere and Physical. Physical types often initiate the flirting.

I took the test. The only things I agree with the analysis on are that I am a physical, nontraditional flirter. The rest was crap.

I mean, really, insincere? I smile and listen to people, but that's not flirting, that's politeness. I like being flirted with (when I can figure out what's going on and the other person doesn't scare me.)

aspiemike: Okay, if that's the definition of sincere (but that's definitely not what I think when I think of sincere).

I tend to think of sincere as meaning something more like telling the truth and doing exactly what one says one will do--to be open and consistent.

I will agree though that I don't always take flirting seriously (again, when I figure out it's happening). About half the time, I assume they're just being nice for some weird reason, and the rest I figure they just want someone to talk to. I finally figure it out right about the time they say something obscene, which I respond to in kind.

As far as physicality goes, iff that's how they've responded to me. I do NOT like surprise touching, nor will I engage in it with someone who I don't have a very close relationship with. (Seriously, what is with NTs and coming up behind you and touching you?)

I'm not a polite flirter either according to the test, which I was surprised by. I try very hard to be polite to others during interactions, though I'm definitely not always good at being polite.

Physical style: not at all physical

You scored higher than 0–10% of other survey takers in your demographic.
You are not at all comfortable and competent in expressing your sexual interest to potential partners. You are not at all capable of figuring out that potential partners are interested in you, and not at all effective at conveying romantic interest to potential partners. In your last serious relationship, it was very unlikely that you:

Felt attracted right away.
Were successful when you flirted using your body language.

Traditional style: not at all traditional

You scored higher than 0–10% of other survey takers in your demographic.
You do not believe that men should make the first move and women should not pursue men. You are very unlikely to feel uncomfortable in a flirting situation where a woman takes charge. You tend to be not at all choosey about who you flirt with, and it is very unlikely that you are selective about who you pursue romantic relationships with. In serious relationships, you do not believe that you should know a potential relationship partner for a long time before approaching them. You are very unlikely to seek out important and meaningful romantic relationships.
Polite style: polite

You scored higher than 40–50% of other survey takers in your demographic.
For this flirting style, you are very similar to the majority of people. It is not a dominant style for you. This flirting style probably doesn’t play a big role in your flirting behavior.
Sincere style: not at all sincere

You scored higher than 0–10% of other survey takers in your demographic.
You are not at all interested in seeking emotional connection and showing sincere interest when flirting. You find flirting not at all flattering, and do not believe that personal and private conversation is the best way to develop romance. When flirting, it is very unlikely that you are:

Successful
Confident
Able to quickly determine relationship potential

In serious relationships, you are very unlikely to experience a strong emotional connection and sexual chemistry.
Playful style: not at all playful

You scored higher than 10–20% of other survey takers in your demographic.
You are very unlikely to use flirting to boost your self-esteem and to have a good time. You strongly believe that flirting should be reserved for the purpose of developing a relationship. You are very unlikely to flirt with those who you have no long-term romantic interest. You are very unlikely to find romantic interest in many other people, and to flirt everywhere you go. You do not believe that flirting is flattering and enjoyable. In your last serious relationship, you were very unlikely to have a short and unimportant relationship that moved quickly, but didn’t last.