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08 Jan 2014, 8:55 pm

:D I'm going to be 27 this April 13th. I've never felt more greater in my life.


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09 Jan 2014, 12:06 am

I'm sorry I was snippy earlier. I'm too cynical for my own good. However, I do legitimately recommend at least considering distancing yourself from MLP. I've seen a lot of people on and offline who put themselves into subcultures like that because they weren't accepted by some of the more conventional groups. You can potentially make friends, but your romantic prospects aren't good.

As a person with Aspergers, I know full well what it's like to be transfixed by a show/series/movie. It really effected my early childhood and made my parents make fun of me more than a few times. I'm not saying I don't do a handful of nerdy things now, but I'm ashamed of how fixated I became looking back on it all.

However, I freely admit that if I could marathon Cowboy Bebop again, I probably would.



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09 Jan 2014, 9:52 am

TheGoggles wrote:
I'm sorry I was snippy earlier. I'm too cynical for my own good. However, I do legitimately recommend at least considering distancing yourself from MLP. I've seen a lot of people on and offline who put themselves into subcultures like that because they weren't accepted by some of the more conventional groups. You can potentially make friends, but your romantic prospects aren't good.

As a person with Aspergers, I know full well what it's like to be transfixed by a show/series/movie. It really effected my early childhood and made my parents make fun of me more than a few times. I'm not saying I don't do a handful of nerdy things now, but I'm ashamed of how fixated I became looking back on it all.

However, I freely admit that if I could marathon Cowboy Bebop again, I probably would.


I'm actually pretty multi-faceted in what I like. I don't like to put myself into one subculture, to tell you the truth. MLP is just one of many things I like.


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09 Jan 2014, 10:19 am

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1. Must put her first
2. Must treat her with respect
3. Must make her feel good about herself
4. Must be athletic
5. Must not drink
6. Must be confident when you engage and interact with the world
7. Must be inspired to daily "be" in the world, to be fully engaged
8. Must actively be the person you're trying to attract

The secret to becoming who you want to attract is to create a daily practice that keeps you “wow’d” and inspired. Wake up every morning with a “Wow” attitude that tells your old victim mentality to take a hike.


Must also have a good job, place and a car.

Do you have those Mr. Ready?



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09 Jan 2014, 10:31 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
redrobin62 wrote:
1. Must put her first
2. Must treat her with respect
3. Must make her feel good about herself
4. Must be athletic
5. Must not drink
6. Must be confident when you engage and interact with the world
7. Must be inspired to daily "be" in the world, to be fully engaged
8. Must actively be the person you're trying to attract

The secret to becoming who you want to attract is to create a daily practice that keeps you “wow’d” and inspired. Wake up every morning with a “Wow” attitude that tells your old victim mentality to take a hike.


Must also have a good job, place and a car.

Do you have those Mr. Ready?


That last one is being worked on as we speak. :D


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09 Jan 2014, 6:03 pm

and it probably has to be the right kind of car.



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09 Jan 2014, 6:23 pm

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and it probably has to be the right kind of car.



This'll surely get dem panties droppin' :wink:

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09 Jan 2014, 6:28 pm

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auntblabby wrote:
and it probably has to be the right kind of car.



This'll surely get dem panties droppin' :wink:

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If a woman wants me for my car I don't really want her.


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09 Jan 2014, 6:29 pm

MadeUnderground wrote:
auntblabby wrote:
and it probably has to be the right kind of car.



This'll surely get dem panties droppin' :wink:

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who knows?



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09 Jan 2014, 6:46 pm

KingofKaboom wrote:
MadeUnderground wrote:
auntblabby wrote:
and it probably has to be the right kind of car.



This'll surely get dem panties droppin' :wink:

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If a woman wants me for my car I don't really want her.


This is not usually the case, but she might hesitate to go out if you don't have a car. Its lack hurts chances big time.



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09 Jan 2014, 6:48 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
This is not usually the case, but she might hesitate to go out if you don't have a car. Its lack hurts chances big time.

what about in countries where most people don't drive?



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09 Jan 2014, 6:58 pm

Not having a job and my own place hurt my chances more


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09 Jan 2014, 7:00 pm

The title of this thread makes me smile. OP please use this as a catchphrase whenever you get lucky :lol:
Go get em tiger


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09 Jan 2014, 9:05 pm

^ Thank you. My mantra for all this is a quote from Casey Kasem: "Keep my feet on the ground and keep reachin' for the stars." :)

More advice (serious only) would be welcome; this is a new frontier for me!


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09 Jan 2014, 9:09 pm

please do not take offense, but if I were you I would put more time into proper diet and exercise.



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09 Jan 2014, 9:12 pm

^ OK, but I will soon have other things on my plate, like an actual job, so finding time may be a bit difficult, but I'll try.


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