FMX wrote:
:lol: No surprises there!
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It found that no studio art majors were virgins while 72 percent of biology majors and 83 percent of biochemistry and math majors were virgins.
... nor there.
Hmmm…I wonder where music majors fall, then. Music departments and schools tend to be more of a subculture than most other departments, which is why it's so easy for us to pair up than many other majors. It's also easier for us to develop collaborative relationships which have the potential for more. The trick is to develop relationships that extend past practice rooms and lobbies, and the more dedicated music people won't be caught dead outside the music library, the practice room, the classroom, or attending/giving performances.
As a grad student, I was in a relationship with a freshman who at the time was a virgin. Having paid my dues, I wasn't about to let the relationship interrupt her academic and professional work. It's too often easy to let the drama of relationships get in the way. The more academic and performance pressure there is, and the more students know how to properly prioritize their activities, the less sex is going to be in the picture.
The down side is there is a strong tendency among musicians to party HEAVILY. Those perverse "band camp" stories? That's what happens when you get a bunch of music geeks with a bizarre sense of humor together. Now all of a sudden that crap you got picked on for in high school is "cool." We "kidnapped" a girl once, held her for ransom, and didn't let her go until our demand for cookies was met. I got pulled over for drunk driving and PASSED a breathalyzer, which was EPIC even in the more non-band-nerd circles. But there is a ton of pressure, we get depressed a LOT (heck, I still do), and sooner or later we're going to collectively break. And it's only funny until someone ends up in the hospital from alcohol poisoning because he was SNORTING Everclear.