sly279 wrote:
I base my stars on how much I like them and would want to date them. I base this off of what I read in their profile and then pictures. I have such mixed results with okc match %. Ive seen women that from their profile I'd love yet okc says they enemy. It confuses me, how someone I have so much in common with is so low on the match %. Take into account I started filling out the questions 6 years ago. I imagine others have too as 3k questions takes awhile. so people change. I see questions that i answered that I disagree with myself on, when they come up i fix them. My point is I think it's wiser to base it on what they wrote on their profile rather then the questions. I kinda prefer pof because of this and women there are less stuck up.
people lie or conceal in the profile, when they answer the questions (especially when they add detail explanation) then you get at their core beliefs. I read the profile to get an idea, then I check every question, if their answers are inconsistent with each other - deal breaker, it means they are concealing something, if they disagree with what I need in a relationship, deal breaker, I am not going to date anyone I will fight there has bee far too much conflict in my life this far.
half or more of my questions don't represent me anymore. I answered them 6 years ago, when i was a different person, answered some as how i thought society required. I Imagine It is the same for others. My profile is more honest and updated. Why would people lie on the profile but not the questions. Wouldn't they lie to both knowing both will be shown to people?
02 Mar 2014, 5:23 pm
